I was engaged when I got pregnant, had lost my job (due to staff cutbacks) and was being supported by my fiancé. We split up before I knew I was pregnant. So yes, for the past two years I have been living in a council flat, funded by housing and council tax benefit. My bills are paid with my Income Support, I spend my Child Benefit on my driving lessons (because driving will make it easier to find a job) and my Child Tax Credits go on food and everything else. I rarely have a night out at the pub, and yes, I do smoke, but I think I'm allowed a few luxuries!
Would I be deserving, because I got dumped for another woman and left to raise his child? Or undeserving, because I chose to bring said child into the world anyway? The whole idea of deserving and undeserving is bloody ridiculous.
Social pressures mean we all need more of everything, or we are effectively shut out of society. Almost everything is done online now, so we all need the internet, for example. That makes it even harder to make ends meet, for everybody.
Growing up in a council house, in a family claiming top-up benefits, only staying in school until I'd done my GCSEs - and yet I had a full-time job, my own flat at 17, and a stable committed relationship. From what I've read on here, nobody expects that from a girl who had to wear hand-me-down clothes.
Yes, the benefits system is flawed. Yes, MPs have far too many perks. Yes, it's unfair that a family of 13 that doesn't work has more than a family of four that does. If you have a solution, become an MP (or PM!) and make it happen. If not, don't complain that the government is doing it wrong. As they say, if you want something done right...