Tully if you work in benefits why don't you know the cap on benefits has been brought in and due soon? 
I am not stupid, I an understand why people would look and be resentful. I have been a mother working 2 jobs and a mother working none. Nonetheless I can also show empathy- having a strong work ethic had nothing but pain for me once I had to become a carer- a lot of guilt came with that! Being a striver- let's see, when DH was made redundant he turned a hobby business into a business that is growing, but more slowly EVERY time this Government scare people; he is also a student- FT, last year. I am a Carer but have also managed to acquire an Access qual, a degree and now almost finished my MA- all very slowly, part time, and some not funded.
I think we are strivers.
So how come the cuts will hit us? Why is ds3's tax credit disability payment being halved? Why is si that PIP drops the clause for constant supervision so we will not get PIP to help with him when he turns 16 (asd, severely aggressive) but neither will I be able to ask him to leave at 18 due to the proposed HB cuts? We are taking a hammering left right and centre here and it's getting harder to cope. I don't even have a washing machine any more, because new uni finance rules (for DH) mean his loan payment has been delayed for at least another month, the washer broke and we're having to use the other income to pay for his petrol just to attend lectures. Not an easy loss with 4 chidlren (NONE born on benefits)- 3 disabled, one with a full gamut of school rugby kits.
I know we need cuts, so why are the benefits that are pointless- yet again I will refer you to heating top ups for people living in warmer claimates- not being targeted? They want me to believe this is not ideological, they can cut those! Don't need to means test- shove the amount on pension tax credits and it will self target quite effectively.
But until their own- and pensioners really are key Tory voters- feel some of this then it's ridiculous to ask anyone else to feel elss that targeted! I think I have some part time work lined up for the end of next year as a result of my studies, I am praying we still have a roof over our heads by then.