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to not want school to teach my kids how to speak in the way the teachers wants?

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bellabreeze · 02/10/2012 20:41

Having irish accents the teacher of some of my kids has told me they would do little speech classes so they speak different.. its not the accent but its things like saying 'ting' not 'thing' and dat not that and stuff like that really.. I think.. I don't think it is important enough to waste time doing? But maybe I am wrong?

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 03/10/2012 21:50

Thanks cailin.

I do think what seems angry, and I am sorry if I've offened her, but I wish she'd just explain why she thinks I'm wrong, instead of attack me as a person.

CoteDAzur · 03/10/2012 21:51

Caillin - When you say "Why is the Irish way automatically wrong?", it sounds like you believe all Irish people pronounce "th" as "d".

Otherwise, you would have said "Why is the way some Irish people pronounce it wrong?"

MadBusLady · 03/10/2012 21:53

Ok, so why is the a-lot-of-the-Midlands-and-also-parts-of-the-South-West-Irish way wrong?

LRDtheFeministDragon · 03/10/2012 21:53

Does she not mean 'the Irish way' as opposed to 'the English way'? Because these children are Irish children in an English classroom. If they were in an Irish classroom where the teacher wanted them to use a different accent, we'd be comparing two Irish accents, but here we're comparing one Irish one and one English one.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 21:55

Yes, it sounds like that, but if you had read my other posts you would see that that's not the case. I expect in a conversation for people to follow the thread of what I'm saying and not take a single sentence in isolation then extrapolate an unrelated argument from it. If every poster had to make every single thing they meant clear in every single post for the benefit of others who couldn't be bothered to read the thread it would get boring pretty fast.

squoosh · 03/10/2012 21:56

floggingmolly I understand that, but surely knowing this goes some way to explaining why the ?d? sound instead of the ?th? is the default pronunciation for many Irish people. And it?s certainly is very difficult to consciously change your natural pronunciation.

I find it hard to say the word ?film? in one syllable. I can do it but it takes more effort than saying fil-lum. Also, I don?t feel the need to say it the ?correct? way.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 03/10/2012 21:59

I would imagine it's vanishingly rare for an Irish person to be unable to say 'th'.

But in some languages, which have no contact with English, people who don't learn to say that sound may never learn it. My in-laws can't do it. In the same way, I can't say all the sounds in their language.

Some people are better at this than others - I know someone who's a professional singer, who can pick up pretty much any language's sounds if he wants to - but mostly, it is an ability we lose as adults. habbibu made this point earlier.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 21:59

I hesitate to mention his name but Bertie Ahern, former Taoiseach of Ireland, says "de" for "the" and "dis" for "this." He also says "turty" for "thirty" and so on. Incidentally he's from Drumcondra in Dublin. An example .

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:00

I didn't say she was 'angry with the world'. I asked why she had the anger of the world on her?

Quite different. At no point did I say her opinion wasn't valid, I just didn't understand her anger.

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:00

Oh God, not Bertie!

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:01

An example of "dat" is at 3:28.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:02

I know, sorry squoosh, but I just find it a bit bizarre that Irish people are saying "I don't know anyone who says that" when the former leader of the fecking country says it!

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:02

Didn't Bertie over emphasise his 'dese' and 'dats' to make himself seem more of a 'ordinary Dub'?

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:03

Sorry that should be 3:25

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:03

Perhaps but even if he did over emphasise it, why would he do that if it wasn't the typical way of speaking in his area?

tarantula · 03/10/2012 22:06

Ah no did we have to bring that scut into the conversation. Maybe he is saving up all his 'th's in his bank account Grin

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:07

Oh yeah, he wanted to portray himself as Mr Drumcondra, salt of the earth, professional northsider etc. The d pronunciaton is widespread in Dublin.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:08

Ah it's good to hear the word scut. Although when I called my DS a scut someone told me it was really bad Hmm My mother called me a scut all the time - what the feck does it mean?

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:08

I love the word scut! Usually preceded with 'dirty'.

yellowbottle · 03/10/2012 22:09

I really can't be arsed reading 18 pages of arguing about this, but I am amused at the idea of teaching phonics being a problem.what do you think we use in Ireland?

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:09
CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:10

Ah urban dictionary tells me it's a mild form of "shit." Thanks mother.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:10

Ya dirty scut!

squoosh · 03/10/2012 22:11

This makes sense

Scut would have been shortened from scutter which as any farmer will tell you is not a pretty sight out the backside of an afflicted cow (terribly bad liquid diarrhoea). So when your ma was saying 'you're some scut,' 'you little scut,' or 'come here you scut ya,' she was calling you a shit or a shite but in the nice clean way.

CailinDana · 03/10/2012 22:13

I still like it :) It was always said in an affectionate way, usually as a precursor to tickling, sort of a telling off and punishment to a comedy offence like farting or stealing the last biscuit.