We both used to work together, I gave her 2 bin bags of my daughters old clothes when her daughter was born about 15m ago-some of which had labels still on and in VGC. She still works at my old workplace, she lives with her parents, no mortgage, her husband on a damn good wage and she pays nothing for childcare.
I lost my job while I was pregnant with my 2nd child-they let me go due to a contracting issue. I'm still unemployed. She knows how broke we are. She also knows I am busy carbooting everything I dont need anymore to put money aside to pay for christmas.
Yet I find her advertising her old baby clothes on a facebook-about 40 of the items I clearly recognise as things I gave her.
Now I know I didn't lend them, I did give them. But AIBU to think it would have been considerate of her to offer them back to me? If circs had been reversed I would have done without a moments thought.