To be doubly doubly fucked off about exs new baby now she's born and he took my baby name!

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That's just it in a nutshell! Dickhead not only knocked up the ow within 6 months of us splitting after leaving me with tiny baby a). His new daughter has just been born and hes called her the name we'd picked for our son if he'd been a girl.

I despair of that man.

And I'm really REALLY fucked off about everything to do with this!

FUCK!!!!!!!

Dont be spiteful especially if your dc are gonna have a relationship with the other baby.Anyway no way to know if your baby had been a girl the name would have suited anyway.Just let it go and be the bigger person it will stand you in good sted.

Oh I know, poopoo. The saddest thing was the one or two sons who didn't know about the others and on meeting their brothers in adulthood found out serial shagger dad thought so little of them all he couldn't be bothered to differentiate them by name. What a bastard.

Did he have an affair? I can't see this so unsure why he's getting roasted for that.
Yes 6months and leaving seems bloody harsh but we have no idea why he left?

As for telling his new dp about the name, I think you'll end up looking bitter and twisted and if he is the prize twat you say he is then all he'll do is say it's a lie.

Is he planning on seeing your child? If so, causing tension is not needed as the new baby is your ds's sister.

Yanbu to feel upset but yabu to act on it.

She was the ow as in shagging him behind your back when your baby was small?

I would totally tell the bitch that her dds ne was one ex and I had chosen first.