To get annoyed when M.N get arsey with o.p's

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I personally think some mumsnetters get way too arsey when an o.p starts a thread about a topic that has been discussed before. Perhaps the poster doesn't spend their whole life on here and doesn't keep a perfectly maintained scrap books of threads. Maybe posters could be constructive, link it to an old thread or how about not answer?

Mnhq came on to say it was being deleted as all wasn't it seemed.

"you want to TALK about it. Not search for an old thread about it. This is a talk forum after all."

No need to listen then?

(And the deleted daughter had been a PITA)

When I am talking ith someone about a topic, that includes listening.

Do we have to now say 'come and meet me for a coffe and we can talk and then listen, about stuff'

I think I once said 'oh ffs not another one' when there were about 20 child benefit threads in one afternoon.

I am here all the time. I am neither sad nor bitchy.

"we need to talk and also listen abut Kevin" is less pithy.