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To feel physically sick and cut contact

195 replies

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 10/09/2012 23:58

The other night, A friend and i were messing around, googling various friends. I put in a girls website name thing into google and found out some pretty disturbing things.

The worst being on a beastiality website, where she is asking for meet ups as she would like to engage in various sexual activities with dogs and horses. There are various posts so it's not like it's just a one time wind up thing either.

It's definitely her, she doesn't have her face in the pictures on there, but she's wearing very little and has some very distinctive tattoos.

I feel sick. I know i shouldn't have looked but TBH, I'm not sure i want someone like that in my life at all, And i'm now wondering if that's why she wanted to look after my horse all the time.

AIBU? Should i just mind my own business?

OP posts:
Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:26

Ooooh she wants to do your horse with something, a strap-on? He'll probably assume she is taking his temperature

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:27

Alameda - I don't have mine anymore! He had his nads cut off and was sold!

OP posts:
bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:27

I can't believe it's not illegal, hope my last post didn't make you feel worse. Just meant the last sentence to point out why it's understandable that your so creeped out and ill.

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:29

I like GoldPedantics idea.

BabylonPI · 11/09/2012 00:29

Tweasels

Me too Grin

"is he shod" - does it make a difference?

PMSL Grin

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:29

No it didn't make me feel worse, I agree with it, it is basically rape what these people are doing. I knew she was fair open minded before but that's just... its just wrong.

OP posts:
Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:30

well I would with mine if we were the same species and he hadn't been gelded

but life is cruel :(

CouthyMowWearingOrange · 11/09/2012 00:30

Will she ride him bareback? [poor taste emoticon]

OhDearNigel · 11/09/2012 00:31

Actually, given a 'situation' one of my friends had with her ex think photos of him that she found, and subsequent investigations by the police into various things, DV etc, I have been rather unpleasantly informed that bestiality itself is not actually illegal, but if it causes suffering to the animal, then you can be prosecuted for animal cruelty. But you have to show that the animal was physically harmed

Rubbish. It's an offence contrary to section 69 (oh the irony) of the sexual offences act 2003

Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:31

yeah I think it would be worse if the horse had shoes on, but probably not much better without

OhDearNigel · 11/09/2012 00:32

69Intercourse with an animal.

(1)A person commits an offence if? .
(a)he intentionally performs an act of penetration with his penis, .
(b)what is penetrated is the vagina or anus of a living animal, and .
(c)he knows that, or is reckless as to whether, that is what is penetrated. .
(2)A person (A) commits an offence if? .
(a)A intentionally causes, or allows, A?s vagina or anus to be penetrated, .
(b)the penetration is by the penis of a living animal, and .
(c)A knows that, or is reckless as to whether, that is what A is being penetrated by. .
(3)A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable? .
(a)on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 6 months or a fine not exceeding the statutory maximum or both; .
(b)on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 2 years.

WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:32

You shouldn't be saddled with this problem OP

Tell her you've come across her website and ask her if it's a jockey sort of funny thing as someone else suggested.

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:33

It is wrong, you've had a big shock. It's impossible to imagine otherwise normal people engaging in sick things like that, perhaps a part of it because it makes you wonder what other normal people are doing behind closed doors.

Tweasels · 11/09/2012 00:33

Alameda. Have you just said you want to have sex with your horse?

Lovelygoldboots · 11/09/2012 00:33

You just Googled her username and then saw pictures of your mate playing naked buckaroo? I think you should just do as your op suggests and cut contact.

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:34

Lovely - No, i googled her username, and the website came up and i clicked on it because i'm a fucking idiot.

OP posts:
Tweasels · 11/09/2012 00:36

Stop it Worra. Enough of the horseplay.

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:36

You're not an idiot, just nosy, most people would be.

tethersend · 11/09/2012 00:37

Ah come on OP; why the long face?

HeadfirstOverTheHighJump · 11/09/2012 00:37

Why not try talking to her neigh-bours, ask if they have seen any horse play?

Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:38

I said if we were the same species and if he hadn't been gelded - oh and if someone cleaned his sheath, don't really fancy his smelly crusty smegma flakes in my minge so no, I don't want to have sex with my horse

OhDearNigel · 11/09/2012 00:38

Can I just say to people that don't believe the OP and think she's a troll, bestiality is not an urban legend - and neither are the websites that people use to find "likeminded" people to engage in their activity with. They all know people, just because it's rather horrifying doesn't mean it's not true.

DH dealt with a man that liked "doing" sheep last year - in a field next to an express train which is how he got found out

WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:39

Sorry Tweasels but this thread is the mane attraction tonight.

BabylonPI · 11/09/2012 00:39

Section 69 GrinGrinGrin

It couldn't have been any other section really could it!!

Priceless! Grin

Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:39

I did peel a bit off and taste it once though, for a dare.

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