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To feel physically sick and cut contact

195 replies

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 10/09/2012 23:58

The other night, A friend and i were messing around, googling various friends. I put in a girls website name thing into google and found out some pretty disturbing things.

The worst being on a beastiality website, where she is asking for meet ups as she would like to engage in various sexual activities with dogs and horses. There are various posts so it's not like it's just a one time wind up thing either.

It's definitely her, she doesn't have her face in the pictures on there, but she's wearing very little and has some very distinctive tattoos.

I feel sick. I know i shouldn't have looked but TBH, I'm not sure i want someone like that in my life at all, And i'm now wondering if that's why she wanted to look after my horse all the time.

AIBU? Should i just mind my own business?

OP posts:
WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:13

Do you think she's had some unbridled passion with your horse OP?

BarbaraWoodlouseGoesForGold · 11/09/2012 00:13

Could you speak up a little Worra? You're sounding a little hoarse.

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:14

Worra - No, i didn't let her come, for reasons i won't go into here.

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WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:15

Barbara I'm trying to reign it in a little.

GoldPedanticPanda · 11/09/2012 00:15

I thought beastiality was illegal. Are you in regular contact with this friend or is she more of an acquaintance? How close are you?

WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:16

Worra - No, i didn't let her come, for reasons i won't go into here

Wise move OP, she really shouldn't be coming at all.

It's just wrong.

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:16

Ah, it's her usual username, not her real name, sorry op. You are obviously sure this is her because of the tattoos and username so no wonder you are upset and disgusted. Could you ring her up and ask her about it?

I honestly don't know what I would do in your position, it would certainly change my opinion of a person!

Moominsarescary · 11/09/2012 00:17

Bloody hell

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:17

Gold - We used to live together, I don't see her much now because we both moved to different areas of the country, She's a few miles away from me now but i've not been keen on restarting seeing her, we speak a lot though, she was messaging me yesterday online.

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BabylonPI · 11/09/2012 00:17

Worra Grin

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:19

bobble - I wouldn't really know what to say "Oh hi, i found those posts saying you want to bang animals and i dont like you anymore?". I don't know. I feel confused.

I looked up the law on beastiality and it was a bit confusing. But i'm also worried now because i clicked on that fooking link.

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Tweasels · 11/09/2012 00:20

I'd find it quite hard in the mane to stay friends with someone who does the sex with horses.

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:20

I'm just thinking about this, would definitely have to mention it to her!!!!! I wouldn't be able to contain myself. BestialityShock...ewww and hahaha.. God, I sound like a right cunt. Those poor animals though, that's wrong.

LadyBeagleEyes · 11/09/2012 00:21

Worra, your puns are glorious Grin

CouthyMowWearingOrange · 11/09/2012 00:21

Actually, given a 'situation' one of my friends had with her ex think photos of him that she found, and subsequent investigations by the police into various things, DV etc, I have been rather unpleasantly informed that bestiality itself is not actually illegal, but if it causes suffering to the animal, then you can be prosecuted for animal cruelty. But you have to show that the animal was physically harmed.

NOT something I thought I would ever have to type on MN!

WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:22

I just don't think she should spur her friend on LBE

Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:24

what is actually possible between a woman and a horse though? You obviously have a stallion, but what sort?

where will his feet go? How would it work?

am sure it would be much more dangerous for your friend than for the horse

bobbledunk · 11/09/2012 00:25

Nah Queen, don't tell her you don't like her anymore, just say you found her on bestiality websites declaring her love for all things bestial and see what she saysGrin. Or you could stay silent until you've thought it through. It really is shocking. Your friend is an animal raper.

Alameda · 11/09/2012 00:25

his front feet I mean, is he shod?

arthurfowlersallotment · 11/09/2012 00:25

I'm sorry but

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GoldPedanticPanda · 11/09/2012 00:26

Couthy... Shock... just... speechless!

Op I'd ask her, something like "was having a nosy online looking for old friends and seeing what people were up to now, and came across your site, is it a joke site?"

If her reply is no it's all real then just don't push the friendship and she'll realise why you've backed off.

WorraLiberty · 11/09/2012 00:26

My DH is a bit of a stud and my ex SIL was a dog.

Yet even I feel this woman is weird.

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 11/09/2012 00:26

Alameda - I heard it's pretty dangerous. When i was at school some boys sent a video round of a woman with a stallion. It managed it but she supposedly died of internal injuries?

I don't really know!

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Tweasels · 11/09/2012 00:26

Nearly fell out of bed.

"where will his feet go"

QOTW

Please don't delete this thread MNHQ

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