To tell you all that I fancy the pants off my husband and love him very much :)

[MrsBramStoker]

We had an awful year of illnesses, toddler twins, money stresses, etc. And overcame the 7 year itch wedding anniversary in August. A few months ago things were so awful that I even had (not really serious) thoughts of escaping

But we're over it now!

He just came home in his work suit and he looked great! Kind of Don Draper smart:) Saw him in the kitchen just now preparing a nice dinner now, and thought he looked great, so handsome and sexy! I actually walked out with a basket of laundry grinning from ear to ear!

Am seeing him in a new light, the sex (blush) and romance is better than ever. I was even fantasizing about him when I was stuck in traffic doing the school run with the 3 kids in the back fighting and crying .

Am I being vomit-inducing or AIBU to tell you all that I feel very lucky to have such a handsome, kind husband that I love very much and why haven't I noticed him in months/years?

I can't possibly say whether YABU or not without a picture. Don't worry he can have his clothes on.

Obviously not unreasonable - I adore mine, even though he's as much of an arse as I am sometimes

As a therapist who sees a lot of couples I come home sometimes and feel a swell of affection for him even if he's staring into space [and thinking about cricket]

Agree with Jamie, we need pictures to have a good old perv make an informed opinion

YANBU.
It's nice to remember who the person is that you fell in love with. Better than looking at them like you wanna kill them anyway!

Leave the bastard!!

Lush beat me to it!

YANBU! What a lovely post.

I fancy the pants off mine too, after 13 years together and 26 years of knowing each other.

YANBU, my husband is the most amazing, wonderful man, he is absolutely my hero and one day I will be able to tell you all why.

I have a sneaky feeling that the 'failing to notice him' bit might have a little bit to do with the toddler twins?!

Anyway, YANBU but make sure you tell your husband too!

ooh why can't you tell us now, whattodo?

Its complicated and very sad and all to do with legal stuff, so for now I have to be silent.

But one day I am going to tell everyone how wonderful he is and how there are people out there who will do the right thing, no matter what the personal cost to themselves.

He is amazing, we all hope we would do the right thing, but I dont think we ever know, DH has done the right thing, at huge cost.

Wow whatodo. I don't know what it is but it sounds impressive ...

OP - YA of course NBU. Glad you are over the rocky bit.

Lauriewotsits: you have put my feelings into words - I feel "a swell of affection" for my Dh,too! Not that huge swoony "ooh ooh I lurv him!" kind of stuff. Just a full hearted swell of affection. Love it! And utter comfort when I could cry on his shoulder - literally sobbing on his shoulder - barely 5 minutes after he came in from work after I got some kind of news.

OP: get a room, love!

PS My DH just farted. That swelling heart has risen to swollen olfactory senses...........

Yanbu, how lovely to hear! Mine came in the other day, sang to me, twirled me about the kitchen and gave me a kiss, I was soo delighted.

Yanbu Im totally loved up with my oh after 10 years together he still gives me butterflies when I see him :)

What a great post OP, good for you, and I hope you have many more happy years ahead xxxx

My dh is just fabulous too, and I feel incredibly lucky and proud when I'm with him. Best thing is that he feels exactly the same xxxxx

Awwwww. I luff a sloppy post

What a lovely post, there should be more

YANBU Me and DH (together 12 years) been in similar situation, sticky patch, will we or won't we make it. Now we're like loved up teenagers.

bleurgh. too sloppy for me by half but enjoy while it lasts

YANBU. Enjoy and embrace it.

Yanbu.

I fancy DP like mad when he gets home from work, he's a road worker and wears flurescent orange trousers and fluorescent yellow top, and he gets home and he's all dirty and sweaty (bleurgh!), although it's a bit gross I find it really sexy