to ask you all to read this thread before the one about the nasty PM?

[TandB]

I hope this doesn't get deleted.

There is a very long thread running in which a poster accuses Hecate of sending her a nasty PM. Some posters seem to have accepted the OP's version of events without hearing what Hecate had to say.

Hecate's response is a long way down the thread and there is a risk that people will continue to respond without reading it. Hecate has posted the text of the message and asked MNHQ to confirm them.

The message she has posted is polite, supportive and in no way, shape or form abusive. Hopefully, MNHQ will confirm the contents very soon.

PLEASE READ HECATE'S RESPONSE BEFORE WADING IN AND COMMENTING AS SHE IS EXTREMELY UPSET.

Obviously, I am working on the basis that Hecate is being entirely truthful about her PM as I cannot possibly imagine this particular poster behaving in the way she has been accused of. But even if you aren't as certain as I am about this, please read both sides of the story before commenting.

I am very much hoping that the OP has somehow made a mistake and will come back to explain and apologise.

Agree kungfupannda

I have actually copied Hecate's response from page 9 of the other thread, mainly because it's just taken me about 10 minutes to find.

*ARRRGGGGGG!! Want to see it? DO YOU? DO YOU?????

MY MESSAGE

I realise you've hidden the thread so may not see this but I wanted to say I don't think you are unreasonable. You don't WANT to wash her clothes and that's your right! Just bag them up and present the bag to your husband and say here are your mother's clothes, there's the washing machine. Like you said "We" are washing them. This time YOU are 'we', not me.

I GOT THIS REPLY!

You have actually gone to the trouble to continue to abuse me by PM, wow you are some bitch. I have reported this to MN as it actually constitutes harassment. Fuck the fuck off and no, I won't be opening any more of your messages.*

It's a very strange situation and I hope MNHQ are looking into it.

Wow lots of threads about this today. Just because people are not posting, I assure you its been read.

I've always found Hecate's posts funny and supportive. (And I couldn't be arsed reading all of the other thread - it just got boring)

Oh dear

storm in a teacup

I am gonne hide both threads

Hecate has posted a screenshot of the pm she sent on her profile.