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to make complaint against housing officer?

32 replies

omfgkillmenow · 30/08/2012 21:18

whole back history with neighbour goes on for about 2 years, threatened to stab me before but she had too much to lose now shes had her kids removed and been lifted many many times...short version alcoholic, not been staying in house for past 6 weeks, abandoned cats, i called sspca as they were starving.

SO she came back and threatened me through a car window (she was in back seat of car which her ex kept driving) and also threatened me indirectly to a friend. I called housing association and they said was aware had meeting next week dont worry she wont come near me. I called police and they said send community officer tomorrow.

7pm she is steaming, I have front door open i hear her call, where are you where are you you fucking fat cunt, trying to get me to come out for a fight. I lock door and call 999. Police lift her.

I stay in lovely rural area I have nice 3 bed , dining room downstairs loo, front and back garden. I called housing association this morning in near tears but coudn't get my own housing officer or the boss, so got another housing officer. She says she doesnt know back story, what does she want me to do? i say evict her !! she says we cant just evict people like that, i say go get her file and you'll see! She says i don't have access to other housing officers files. I said your not taking this threat seriously she has nothing to lose she has already lost kids and spends half her life in jail anyway. Housing officer says If I am really that terrified then I should present as homeless WTF!!! Ive never been late with rent or had any complaints against me

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pictish · 30/08/2012 22:07

Yo, dat ho sho' is lazy! That's how I read it too.

OP - you must get the ball rolling yes, she has to go. But there are procedures and shit.

Good luck xx

omfgkillmenow · 30/08/2012 22:09

yes i reported to the housing association that her cat had came into my house and stolem my dogs food because it was starving and that she hadn't been seen for weeks. They are investigating and are in the process of evicting her, the way MY "HO" made it sound like was that this meeting next week is to give her her notice or either downsize her to flat in town as she no longer has kids no longer needs big house, but she made it sound like "she will soon be gone for good" without actually coming out and saying it

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omfgkillmenow · 30/08/2012 22:14

one of the other neighbours is going to petition all the neighbours to get her out and give it to housing association becasue of bother that she has had, most people have had run ins with her but Im the only one she says she wants to actually kill...and she does mean it

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scarlettsmummy2 · 30/08/2012 22:21

Firstly, housing officer can't evict her- it will have to go to court and a judge will make that decision. Secondly, if they do evict her they will just be moving the problem elsewhere.

omfgkillmenow · 30/08/2012 23:23

elsewhere sounds fine

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omfgkillmenow · 30/08/2012 23:23

anyway, wont make complaint, have been convinced IWBU

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Devora · 30/08/2012 23:27

Can the police give you a bit more help? Go round and give her a stern talking to warn her off? Is it worth looking into getting an injunction?

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