no, not on the news but yes in the news, the aftermath of shooting's, bombing's, dead real people covered in blood, lost limbs, starving half dead people, babies almost dead lying in mothers arms...the news is full of real life awful things....and who switches this off or removes the kids from the room???...people sit and eat dinner watching this atrocious real life stuff,... people living under a plastic sheet and fighting each other for scraps of food, police brutality of innocent people and children, bloodied bodies lying on makeshift beds..or on the street's..but...it's not 'real' people on the games...it's graphic's...there IS a big difference....and there is a very clear difference....it's not real...kids know this....they are not stupid!!!...and the graphics are not that realistic if you look at them...they just are not...games are about imagining yourself in the situation...putting yourself in the war, battle, survival mode sort of...like a movie...and it's role play, character mode...not real!!!
I didn't say I approved of any game and did very early on in this thread say that I am careful about the game format and content and that sometimes the reason for some ratings on games is partly to do with complexity, strategy and tactic's and the more complex they are the higher the rating....the ratings are guides to playing the game...it's not all about the graphical blood, gore and what not...it's overall concept led as well as content and detail.....GTA is a disgrace for anyone to play however...that game is the worst thing I have ever seen...
I have boundaries...I am not moronic thanks...but I'm not hysterical!!!...I'm simply open-minded, a realist and believe there is a place for everything....pretending they don't exist is naive and probably quite stupid to try to do...and since when did saying no to kids stop them from doing something anyway....??? jeez!!!..you try to stop them...their friend has it and it's their favourite game...probably goes to the other kids house loads so they can play it!!!
Its the 'oh no I won't ever buy a toy gun for wee tommy',....but the child picks up a stick and plays with it as a gun anyway, or builds one from the lego/duplo blocks...just buy the gun and get on with it....!!
'yes, we are kind and careful and gentle with all animals and creatures and everything is just lovely'...then you stamp on the spider on your carpet, serve up beef, pig and what not, run over the rabbit on the road because to swerve or brake may cause an accident...oh look there's a dead badger or whatever...what do kids do...they want a closer look, poke it with a stick, etc....not blood thirsty and cruel...just curious...
And how many parents have caged animals at home???....a bird that never flies, a rabbit that never burrows, guinea pigs, hamsters, gerbils, and rats live in large groups, so do rabbits...what do we do and that's ok???...stick 1/2 in cage and stare at them, forget to feed them, can't be bothered cleaning this horrible home/prison we have put them in....that's cruel but acceptable???
It depends on the game or whatever in question and the child in question...the situation.....and the parent(s) and where your views come from...
AND...maybe it is even fortunate to some degree that children and young people have some kind of concept of what a war, battlefield or situation would be like for real...and maybe it is also how we can be a bit more empathetic towards those who have seen war, been maimed, suffered and lost lives....maybe it brings it into a more realistic sphere for people...the news we see, gamers gaming, etc...not that the only way to have any concept of what could lie ahead is to actually be there...on that front line with a real gun in your hand....maybe it has it's positives....maybe gaining some degree of it from simulation and graphics isn't all bad news????
You need an open mind to look at things unpleasant and embrace them for what they are and that something is always going to bring the bad bits in life back to you....maybe kids should be exposed a bit...how else to know right from wrong and good from bad.....experience and practice...even the bad bits...surely???
......I like dots......!!!!
...and my post is just theory...just musings...just question's...I never said I was right....just that it's maybe worth looking at some things differently...no harm in thinking and wondering....not yet anyway hahahahahaha
So far I can report that my DS is non-aggressive, non-confrontational and is kind to animals....understands that cruel, bad things happen...has a strong sense of right and wrong and honesty and knows what sort of person he wants to become....based on his experiences so far....gaming included
....I'm very proud!!....He's ASD/ADHD and alot more sorted than an awful lot of kids I know....keeping it real 