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AIBU?

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to look over my fence into my NDN's garden?

118 replies

Chrishassix · 07/08/2012 23:23

My NDN thinks he has a right to privacy and i shouldnt be looking over.

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WorraLiberty · 07/08/2012 23:23

Depends on how high the fence is

Do you have to stand on a chair? Grin

kinkyfuckery · 07/08/2012 23:25

Depends what you were looking over for?

Chrishassix · 07/08/2012 23:25

I do stand on a chair, yes.

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Olympia2012 · 07/08/2012 23:25

How odd!

mistlethrush · 07/08/2012 23:25

Are you standing on your dc's climbing frame so that you get a better view?

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 07/08/2012 23:25

Can't you just spy from a upstairs window?

PissyDust · 07/08/2012 23:26

Why?

I tend to lean out of the bedroom window.

ScrambledSmegs · 07/08/2012 23:26

Reverse AIBU?

WorraLiberty · 07/08/2012 23:26

I do stand on a chair, yes

Does he squirt you with his hose?

I would.....

mistlethrush · 07/08/2012 23:26

x post - if you have to stand on a chair and they are in so can see you, yes yabu

whois · 07/08/2012 23:26

Look from an upstairs window, much more discreet.

WorraLiberty · 07/08/2012 23:28

Or buy a trampoline?

Chrishassix · 07/08/2012 23:29

Ok, not strictly NDN, it's the house round the corner. It backs on to the very end of the garden, so can't be seen from the house.

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Kladdkaka · 07/08/2012 23:29

OP, you need one of these

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 07/08/2012 23:29

Does he squirt you with his hose?

That would be a shocker! Wink

Tiredmumno1 · 07/08/2012 23:29

Depends what you are looking at? And as long as they ain't naked then where's the harm Wink Grin

I'm kidding, why on earth would you stand on a chair to look over anyway? Grin

QuintessentialShadows · 07/08/2012 23:30

I once took a chair to look into my neighbours garden.

One of the many police officers said "madam, would you kindly step down from the ladder and dont disturb the investigation".

I felt suitably chastised. Thank goodness there was a small hole in the fence.

lastSplash · 07/08/2012 23:30

This is very funny.

Why are you standing on a chair looking into their garden OP?

Chrishassix · 07/08/2012 23:30

Have a trampoline, that's in the top half of our garden, so can't see over that fence with that.

The climbing frame is further down the garden but but still not close enough.

That's why i need a chair, or a ladder.

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BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 07/08/2012 23:31

What does he have in the garden that is so interesting?

A sex shed?

A big mound of suspicious looking dirt?

A fucking dungeon entrance?

Tiredmumno1 · 07/08/2012 23:32

Do you like their garden?

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 07/08/2012 23:32

Not a fucking dungeon a dungeon with a fucking in front for emphasis. Grin

Tiredmumno1 · 07/08/2012 23:33

Grin bonkey, I was about to ask for directions Grin

ScrambledSmegs · 07/08/2012 23:33

What is there to look at in his garden? Is he attractive, and does he do naked tai chi? if so can I share your chair?

kinkyfuckery · 07/08/2012 23:34

What are you looking for?