lots of interesting stuff on this thread, some of which is human nature -
whatever you have, you'll use it, some people will always want more..
statistics can be mucked about with to back most points of view.
and ignoring the fact the OP agreed swbu many pages ago!
i think a study found people earning £50k total were happiest, though obv there are some that can feel well provided for on next to nothing and some who won't be content with several millions...
if you are one who is readily contented you are more likely to feel you are doing well (obviously) whatever life throws at you.
After DH being unemployed a long time- yes, we do take home more with a job - £100pw more. if he'd got the same job in London he'd be working and taking home nothing/ less net income in effect..due to commuting costs.....so although benefits not a great way to live, it is important to recognise the costs of work....and look at net income and of course this can vary greatly from the 'headline' salary figure.
i found BoffinMums list enlightening - i have worked in Retail (where 'fairness' means all employees get the same tough deal) and for SMEs (where benefits depend entirely on the CEOs opinion of what is important) and in banking (better than retail, though nowhere near as good as BMs list!) and public sector suppliers (generally good deal)....the private sector is not homogenous, and large parts only deliver statutory minimums of anything (and of course, if you are self-employed, perhaps not even that!).