So,I was in the kitchen making breakfast for DD (5) who was at our bedroom (and she was going to have breakfast there as woke up with conjuntivities) when Dh came from behind touching my bum and suggesting a quickly one. I told him he was too late because the night before I suggested we had a shower together once dd was asleep, he couldn't stop watching whatever on his Ipad so I had my shower alone and went to the sitting room to watch TV, he had his shower hours later, I thought he would come but went to sleep instead... So back to this morning, I told him no way because DD was awake and even tough she was in bed she could hear or leave the bedroom and see something and she could also sense we were up for something even if she didn't hear or see anything, but Dh sulked and said I should be more adventurous....well my idea of being adventurous is to go out and discover new places/food/interesting things to do, NOT to make sex in a small open plan kitchen 2 bedroom flat with your 5 year old wide awake... May I add we are having some problems in the bedroom department due my lack of sex drive but I was willing last night he should have made most of it...