AIBU to not want DH to spoon/fork-feed 3.5yo?

[MegBusset]

If we are out having a family meal and 3.5yo DS2 has stopped eating with some food left on his plate, DH sometimes grabs his fork and attempts to feed him some more, aeroplane-style. This drives me nuts as a) he is 3.5 fgs and b) he will then demand to be fed at home. (I am sahm so deal with 95% of mealtimes).

AIBU to not want him to?

lol joyfull

an aibu flaming seems to be a rite of passage! it never did me any harm

We were out this evening for a meal and I could see DD2 (aged 3.6) flagging. She was tired and had stopped eating. I sensed she was still hungry so I 'fed' her with a fork. She finished her plate with my help.

I fail to see this as an issue.