to risk embarrassing dh

[needtogetalife]

So would I be wrong to pull dh up about used tissues in the bedroom bin? By used I don't mean he has a cold! Shouldn't he just flush them and save and hassle? So should I say something or not?

You're forensically examining used tissues? And you think HE has the issue?
Ok.

Just get him to empty the bin if it bothers you. It's not like he's leaving them all over floor.

lentillyfart he has the tissue, she has the issue

If he is putting them in the bedroom bin, I'm sure you won't be embarrassing him by mentioning it.

Urgh tell him to throw them away.I hardly think hes going to be embarassed by you saying, its obviously not a secret.

At least he's putting them in the bin. Could be much worse!

No I emptied the bag and they were in full view and was quite obvious

Ohhh theyre in the bin. I thought he was flinging them around the room.

mama - nice one!

I honestly would like to know how the actual fuck you can tell a wank tissue from any other tissue having been used to blow nose/wipe eyes etc?

Trinity - IMO you really shouldn't be able to..........

Hmm maybe I am over reacting then,

But do the tissues contain something else? because you shouldnt flush those!

Seriously though, why would your DH be embarrased?? Either tell him to empty the bin or do it yourself.

lentilly, you mean unless you sniff it/examine it closely you wouldn't be able to?

cause thats what I think

and why can't he put them in the bin?

whats wrong with that?

surely 'cold' tissues are more likely to spread cold around (not that they actually do) by being left in the bin

you're not going to catch 'wank'.....

what else would they contain?

surely noone wanks with a condom on?

I dunno Trinity - it's not an issue in this house but that's probably because to me a used tissue could be full of watery snot, solid boogers, wank juice or spit-up - it wouldn't matter because I just don't look inside them!

Why would you say anything? What would be the point? He put them in the bin, he didn't scatter them all over your pillow fgs.

He put them in the bin, he didn't scatter them all over your pillow fgs

The unromantic bastard...........

At least he's not wiping it on the curtains...

Unless you'd prefer that he pretended he never had a wank then I'd let it go. Men wank, women wank. So what? It's not a weird thing to do.

Trinity it's called a "posh wank" round our way.

worra!!!!

Worra

There's always the possibility of a wank sock or mitten too. I think I'd prefer the tissue/issue scenario myself, and I'm quite a green recycling type.

worra

Spose you could ask him to stand on your driveway on bin night and wank directly into the wheelie bin?