How do you deal with Bullies?,any advice would be great please?

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Im dealing with this at present ,where I live and I have been ignoring it ,although it is hard its bascially my neighbours,they have the whole street not talking to me now?,I can except that.

So do i just ignore ignore,thank you.

Please could you tell us a few instances, examples, so that we can try to unpick with you

Sounds horrid for you

Can you elaborate?

Had to involve police for threatening me infront of dc.

They have a problem with me now,with where I park my car,that I have had a fence put in,all sorts of silly things.

Standing in the street talking about me,looking at the window making comments about me ref the fence.

The whole street used to speak to me knowone does now.

do you live in my street? you've described my neighbours almost exactly. I can't go out any more, nor can my dd play. Its awful.

We phoned the police, not that they were of much use, it was like pulling teeth.

But try the police anyway, and keep a record of everything.

ooops saw you had, well keep phoning them and make sure you say you wish to make a formal complaint against the neighbours, we were told that was the only way the police could do something

I used to close the curtains and not go out,but I wont be beaten.

I nver wanted my kids to go in the garden I have to watch them I prefer it when they are not in the garden tbh.

I would definitely keep the police updated.

Can you think of a specific incident that may have sparked this?

I am in no blaming you by asking that, just as a starting point?

Same for me here,except not all neighbours. I have some nice ones, but there are two families who make life hell!!

I am moving next year and live in a HA house. I shall be looking to do an exchange. I shall base that on how nasty the potential swappeees are though!!

Shame you and Red could live next door to me ,we would be so happy.

Shame you and Red could live next door to me ,we would be so happy.