To want to tell tales on this condom-chucking teenage cowbag ...

[Fecklessdizzy]

Two local schools share a bus ... DS2 ( 10 ) has just come home all upset because some upper school harpy lobbed a condom into his hair. Is this just yooful hi-jinks or should I follow my second impulse and grass her up to the school ( first impulse, rather shamingly, was to stomp down to the bus stop and give her a thick ear plus a few choice expletives )

What do you all think ... ?

I don't know really, my first instinct would be to tell him to lob it back as long as it wasn't a used one!

But if you're annoyed then contact the school and 'complain'

I don't think as an adult you need to be using phrases like 'tell tales' or 'grass her up'.

Go to the school. Most schools will deal with this kind of behaviour. Schools take the point of view that whilst in school uniform you represent the school and this behaviour is not acceptable. (The school I work at would tackle this issue.)

Have as much information that you can.

i think it was most likely a bit of silly pranks going on in which case, brush it off and tell your son to ignore their stupid behaviour. In my day people used to throws tampons (not used!) thinking it was hilarious.
If it is not a one off or if this continues into a more targeted, singling out of your DS in any way, then yes absolutely report it to the school and make a complaint

Fair enough, I'll stand down the phone finger unless she ups the ante tomorrow.

I did point out to a huffy DS2 that in a few years being bombarded with the werewithall by teenage strumpets would make his day but he just gave me a never-in-this-life sort of look and ran off ...

I not sure, if ds was a dd and the girl had been a boy I think there would be different responses. Not sure why it should be different.

I think the head teacher would probably like to know. It doesn't create a good impression of the school to the general public!

Tempting to mail the condom to the head of the school say it belongs to a pupil there......

Sadly, he didn't hang onto it, otherwise we could have filled it with something noxious and heaved it back ...

Was it aimed at him? Not sure why he is so upset to be honest.. if it was a used condom fair enough, but I am sure you would have mentioned that OP.