to want a good shafting on a first date?

[stackingtheshelves]

To cut a long story short...

I've been a single mother now for over 3 years.

No sex for 3 years.

(Obviously not counting going solo)

And now, I have a date on Saturday night!

AIBU to want him to shag my arse off after I've drank some gin and dazzled him with my pole dancing teqniques?

Thanks in advance!

Dadsnet equivalent: "AIBU to want to give her a good shafting on a first date?"

One reply 6 months later.....

"erm...no."

end of.

arf @ Pan

YANBU if that's what you want to do OP.

As others have said...just be careful.

How do you know him? If you only know him online, make sure someone you trust knows where you are meeting him and keep in contact with them...a text to let them know you've arrived and when you're leaving.

Think about where you're going to have sex (I don't mean which orifice!) and let your friend know that too.

Are you thinking of a hotel, his place or yours?

s'true AF. They'd have grand kids before we got round to 'advising'.

ooh, link to bj thread please? my dp has the grollies i aint getting any tonight i may as well have a good ol bj thread instead

well, Pan, I know you tried to stir up Dadsnet recently

it wasn't exactly "hornets nest" territory was it ?

rather more "dead wasp" if we are being honest...

hes got manflu

it's in AIBU, doggie

get on over there (and take meow with you, cheers)

You mean like

He might want to take things at a slower pace. Only saying.

"If you shag him on the first date he's unlikely to see you as anything more than a one night stand and it won't turn into a relationship." or equivalent. What nonsense! I shagged my boyfriend of three years on the first date. I've also waited until the third date and it was shite.

Do it if it feels right! Enjoy.

Dear god 3 years! I'd skip the date and get down to business.

Definitely do it!

I've always been a sex on the first date girl, not that I've been on that many dates. Didn't put DH off, in fact if I remember I think it had quite n effect on him.

Remember to be prepared. Have you tamed the lady garden at all? Condoms, lube etc?

Update op???