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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to want a good shafting on a first date?

90 replies

stackingtheshelves · 03/07/2012 20:52

To cut a long story short...

I've been a single mother now for over 3 years.

No sex for 3 years.

(Obviously not counting going solo)

And now, I have a date on Saturday night!

AIBU to want him to shag my arse off after I've drank some gin and dazzled him with my pole dancing teqniques?

Thanks in advance!

Grin
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doggiemumma · 03/07/2012 21:34

oooh, im actually jealous!

FanjoPingpong · 03/07/2012 21:35

I always shag on the first date. It's why I wanted a date, after all. Enjoy!

DamselInTornDress · 03/07/2012 21:35

Dust away the cobwebs and go POLO (pants off legs open). You know what You want. Or should I say what you need? Why be coy? Unless he's boak!

TheSecondComing · 03/07/2012 21:35

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SPsFanjoLovesRussellHoward · 03/07/2012 21:37

Do it!
Be safe!
Enjoy it!

If turns out to be a weirdo well there's a thread awaiting Grin

SquishyCinnamonSwirls · 03/07/2012 21:38

Go for it and have a fab time. Be safe, obviously, but have fun!

bucketbetty · 03/07/2012 21:38

PMSL at this thread. I was about to post to see if it was ok to shag on the third date - I won't bother now. :)

yellowraincoat · 03/07/2012 21:39

That's nice, OP. Here's a picture of a nice big cock: <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/60/Rooster_portrait2.jpg/220px-Rooster_portrait2.jpg&imgrefurl=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rooster&h=330&w=220&sz=27&tbnid=WmmylgjPrN1N7M:&tbnh=95&tbnw=63&zoom=1&usg=__UxldDW6BWbV-syjldU5eJFLZ4Ww=&docid=7z0tavCjL98cKM&hl=en&sa=X&ei=VFjzT7XlMIqj8QP94MWDDg&ved=0CGYQ9QEwAg&dur=262" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">cock

Did his look anything like that?

ErikNorseman · 03/07/2012 21:39

If a guy likes you he will want to keep seeing you whether you fuck on the first or the 5th date. If he's just after a fuck then no amount of
making him wait will make him want you as a girlfriend. DH here also a one night stand (well sort of, 5 day holiday fling)

marathonrunner · 03/07/2012 21:40

Omg. Someone you've never met before sent you a pic of his cock???

Jesus. Have you reciprocated?

You know she's a woman right!!?? Grin

DamselInTornDress · 03/07/2012 21:40

It's a booty call you're after and nowt wrong with that!

hatesponge · 03/07/2012 21:41

TheSecondComing tis the way of the modern (internet) dating world it seems...worse are the ones who send you a pic like that attached to their initial message Hmm I'm never quite sure what response they expect to elicit - am I supposed to be so impressed at the size of their usually average or less member that I respond with my address and phone no and an open invitation?!

cantspel · 03/07/2012 21:42

why would you want to sleep with someone who sends cock photos?

that is just tacky

yellowraincoat · 03/07/2012 21:43

Yeah, hatesponge, there's nothing that would turn me on less than a genital without any context.

Very odd. Cocks and fannies should be on bodies, not in the starring role of a photo.

Morloth · 03/07/2012 21:43

Off you go, be safe and have fun.

Bullshit should a man judge a woman for doing exactly the same thing as him. Perhaps the OP should judge this guy for being so easy?

Don't bring him home though, he could be a nutter.

kotinka · 03/07/2012 21:44

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sensuallettuce · 03/07/2012 21:48

3 years jeez?! I am struggling with 3 months Grin you go girl!!!

cantspel · 03/07/2012 21:51

but he could have the biggest knob in the western world and still be a crap lay
so i dont really see anything positive in a knob shot

sensuallettuce · 03/07/2012 21:52

Ooooh I was number 69 Grin

SPsFanjoLovesRussellHoward · 03/07/2012 21:53

sensual I know the feeling.
God knows what I'd be like after 3 year! Grin

kotinka · 03/07/2012 21:54

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TheSecondComing · 03/07/2012 22:21

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nothingoldcanstay · 03/07/2012 22:35

If you aren't bothered that he doesn't want to see you again (not saying he won't) then do it. Don't do it if you will be pissed off that he doesn't want to take you out for a night, just in case he doesn't.

I'm not interested in "easy"as a person to have a relationship with.Although I will shag on a first date for fun.

I can't believe anyone wants a cock that much TBH. Really? After 3 years I'd want a nice bloke first and sex second ....or maybe 3rd after someone to take me to a film then dinner.

doggiemumma · 03/07/2012 23:20

awww, nothingoldcanstay - how very romantic you are but really, sometimes women just want a good hard fuck

TBH, he doesn't sound like a keeper but who knows, he sounds like he will be jumping your bones on your date Grin. Do take appropriate precautions (he sounds like a tart!) and make sure you have fun.

I shagged my DP on the first date (i would have shagged him the first night i met him at the party i met him at but i was on my period), we have been together 20 years.