to want a good shafting on a first date?

[stackingtheshelves]

To cut a long story short...

I've been a single mother now for over 3 years.

No sex for 3 years.

(Obviously not counting going solo)

And now, I have a date on Saturday night!

AIBU to want him to shag my arse off after I've drank some gin and dazzled him with my pole dancing teqniques?

Thanks in advance!

Oh!

Bloody absolutely fantastic advice spuddybean

No knickers - check

Hope his cock is massive, no sex here since 2008 :(

No decent sex since 1997.

I'm desparate, someone shag me silly.

Yanbu. Ain't nought finer than a big hard dick :-)

My last 1 night stand turned into a 10 year (and counting) marriage. I say do it, just be careful!

Oh just shag him and enjoy

You do know you will have to report back

Erm

"Give it out"??

Any man who used phrases like that or thought about me in those terms for doing exactly the same thing as him would be more than welcome to fuck off and not come back the morning after in my book.

Do it! I love a good ONS. As long as you're careful and you both know what you're in for, job's a good un

Make sure you let us know how big his cock is how you get on.

Still with one night stand, DD2 result of said one night stand, DS maybe result of falling in love with.................
Was 37 when we first met in chat room.............................

Do what you want, however, we will feel deprived if you do not not share pole dancing vid!!

I'm well jealous [envious] It's been far too long here as well (17 months) and even then it was crap!! I have a massive crush on a guy who has been texting me and would love to shag him. You should go for it OP. Although, I do agree with some posters who have said that short term restraint could lead to lots of shags in the future

Bollocks do men see you differently if you have sex on the first date. That's such outdated bs. And frankly I wouldn't want to waste even 5 minutes of my time on a man that judgmental.

I have shagged men on the first date. I have also had many first dates where I didn't. As neither category ever wanted to see me again (because I have second date-itis) I can safely say it makes bugger all difference.

If a man is just after a shag (and many most are) then they'll hang round only until they get it, be that the first date, third, sixth or whatever. Spending an extra hour or 2 in their company pre sex is no guarantee of an enduring relationship.

OP, I say YANBU. Just make sure you a) use protection and b) enjoy it

Go for it! Especially as it seems you don't even particularly care at this point whether it turns out to be a long term thing or not.

Seriously, if the majority of contact thus far has involved filthy text messages...I think you're probably both on the same page ;-)

Do it do it do it! Just remember to have at least 3 hours worth of shag muzak on your iPod first. Oh & I'll be checking on this thread for an update on Sunday afternoon!

Rofl at *soulsource! Just join match.com, you'll be able to shag a different man every day of the week!

OP, any man who doesn't like you because you shagged him on a first date isn't worth it.

I think I've shagged everyone on more or less the first date. And they still respected me because my technique is excellent

I'm another one who married her sex on a first date bloke!

DO IT!

(Just make sure you both don't get too drunk, that's always disappointing.)

Will definitely be checking in with an update Sundat afto!

(Hopefully sore)

He sent me a picture of his cock 3 nights ago.

Here the link...

just kidding

Gotcha!

Oh, you wouldn't fit it all in yer mouth.

So yes. Hung.

i have had long term relationships with girls i have shagged on the first night, it's very outmoded to think he will make descisions about you.

love the no knickers idea, maybe you should tell him during the date, whisper it in his ear when he isnt expecting it or just say it matter of factly if he seems confident, if he seems nervous dont mention it. i think.

but also be careful let a freind know where you will be and the guys adress or phone number.

hope you have a good time , i'll be checking back on sunday to find out what happend, this guy is a lucky bugger!

kotinka but whether or not you find a keeper has little to do with how quickly you have sex surely? If a man isn't looking for a relationship, then like I said one date or 7 makes no difference, he'll still sod off as soon as he's got what he wants.

I have wanted a relationship for a long time, still do. I don't have sex on every first date but as I never get beyond that one date, if I didn't have occasional first date sex I would have had none at all in 4 years. which for me is far too long!

If there is no update thread on Sunday aft I'll be very very disappointed!!

Great advice people!

Thank you peoplesrepublic

I will do, my dear!

Thread titled " I got rogered last night' :o

go for it, make sure you have lots of condoms, dont drink too much that you vom and pass out. leave details with a trusted friend of his name/no/where your going (paranoid)

my best one night stand was with the most gorgeous fucker i had ever seen, i didnt care if i saw him again but i wanted him badly, had the most amazing sex of my life (three times night, middle of the night, morning) he phoned me a week later, went to his for dinner, had a proper conversation and everything, had his hot body again, married him two years later (12yrs ago) now when we do manage it (old knackered 3dc) its sadly once a night (thank god actually)...sex is very important! dont feel unreasonable about it at all