So I posted last week about my partner not even bothering to contact me about my exam results - we were supposed to be going out that night to cheer me up/congratulate me yet he never bothered contacting me about that either so I went out with friends, assuming he didn't want to go. He went in a strop and said it was all my fault as I should have contacted him blah blah blah - he has not apologised.
A couple of days later we'd still not physically seen each other and I kept thinking about things - how he's never actually here when I need someone, Christmas, exam results, even stupid things like the England games - we're sat watching them at separate houses despite the fact that we live 10 minutes from one another. All conversation is over facebook or text and we see each other roughly once a week. It's just all a bit shit. So I text him and told him I needed "space". Cliche' but I was too chicken to actually say I wanted to break up. He text me back saying "ok, I'll order you a shuttle haha" wtf?? His social skills are mind boggling.
So anyway, I was due to go to his house this weekend and sleep over. I have cancelled. I have made it blatently obvious that things are not looking good and a split is imminent. He has just text me to ask that since I'm not staying at his house saturday night, could we go for lunch Sunday?
AIBU to text back "yes, we need to talk anyway and I'd rather it be face to face rather than text or facebook this time". He'll know. Because we've had the "we need to talk" thing before when we broke up. This time it will be the true end to everything though.
So yeah, bit long winded but - AIBU to hint at impending break up?