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To think having sex whilest you child is in the same bed is very very wrong

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Mrbojangles1 · 25/06/2012 19:51

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2164398/Should-sex-child-room-As-woman-admits-sex-sessions-year-old-sleeps-tells-This-Morning-verging-child-abuse.html

I think doing it whilest a small baby is in a cot is very diffrent to doing it while child of any age is in the bed next to you, also i just dont under stand how any one could get aroused when you basically eye ball to eye ball with your child

I sure in cultures were people live in one room or huts this happens but not in the wester world were we dont have 6 family memebers to a room not when you have the CHOICE TO NOT HAVE SEX WITH A CHILD SLEEPING IN YOUR BED NEXT TO YOU WHY WOULD YOU DO IT.

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toofattorun · 25/06/2012 23:15

Gross. I could never do that.

LucieMay · 25/06/2012 23:17

pet water buffalo Grin

Latara · 25/06/2012 23:50

Yes pet water buffalo.
A bit like when farmers have their favourite cows or sheep.
In some Eastern European villages even in the 1940s the family's few farm animals would sleep in the cottages to keep the family warm...
Same principle but with water buffalo because it was rural Philippines approx.

I don't think you can buy them at Pets At Home though.

biddysmama - you mean have sex in another room as in Not The Bedroom With The Lights Off Missionary Position Only? Shocked actually. Just shocked.

Shoesme · 26/06/2012 13:56

Me and the ex once had sex with our baby in the same bed, it was all going fine until he moved his arm so it touched mine, sort of killed it after that for me.

monkeymoma · 26/06/2012 13:58

its not a FAVOURITE sheep or cow Grin, its the orphaned ones that they couldn't get adopted by another sheep or cow mother so they took it indoors so it wouldn't die LOL!

LeQueen · 26/06/2012 14:01

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bitofcheese · 26/06/2012 14:02

i feel awkward having sex infront of the cat.. :D

Hownoobrooncoo · 26/06/2012 14:04

I don't think I'd feel comfortable. Trying to remember if we have as we have co slept a lot and have a big bed, honestly can't remember but probably no. I wouldn't judge others though and if they're happy for some quiet, gentle sex then so what, won't harm the baby.

BonnieBumble · 26/06/2012 14:09

Why do people feel the need to overshare so much these days? If you want to have sex with the baby in bed, fine go ahead and do it. No need to tell all and sundry about it. Who cares?

KellyElly · 26/06/2012 14:32

bitofcheese yeah me too, they always stare. Freaks me out Grin

bitofcheese · 26/06/2012 17:32

kelly - dh makes her go out of the room, i feel she looks at me looking pissed off. mind you, she always looks pissed off :D

solidgoldbrass · 26/06/2012 21:36

I think cats are much more offputting than sleeping babies - cats have a way of looking at you with such contempt.

Andreynolds87 · 08/11/2024 16:14

It's sexual activity which, so is masturbation are people saying ok if childs asleep

Katemax82 · 08/11/2024 17:01

I remember being woken up by the sound of my mother going at it with my stepson dad in the next room when I was about 10. No child should ever have to hear that shit

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