He was too scared to tell his work it was our scan and he hasnt told them yet I am pregnant.
He wasnt 100% sure that they view the scan as important enough for him to miss work for so said it was a hospital appointment....
his boss came to his desk infront of other workers to ask what its for and can he change it due to two others being away that day, its a help desk. ....so my DH alluded to another condition they know he has...and STILL the boss asked if he could re schedule.
DH isnt very good AT ALL at asserting himself...and he is sooo stressed about the whole thing I am on verge of telling him not to bother but by the same token....I think hang on, we are soo lucky to have this second DC on the way.....two and half years of trying, and it is a scan where something nasty could crop up so would like him with me. In the grand scheme of things isnt this more imp?
HE is a dream employee - at his desk half and hour before work, NEVER EVER taken sneaky sick day - totally reliable etc...great at what he does. Yet he has taken large pay cut - work load gone up due to reduncies etc etc..