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to think that Men should have to show their marital status at all times

84 replies

TalkinPeace2 · 16/06/2012 15:02

Just going through the Birthday Honours list.
www.direct.gov.uk/prod_consum_dg/groups/dg_digitalassets/@dg/@en/documents/digitalasset/dg_202133.pdf
Every single woman is marked out as "Miss", "Ms" or "Mrs"
and yet none of the men are.
Sex discrimination of the most base order IMHO.
Why do women's achievements seem to depend on their marital status and yet men's do not?

OP posts:
Greatauntirene · 17/06/2012 08:25

YANBU. Women should have no title unless prof or dr etc the same as the men.

jamdonut · 23/06/2012 19:31

I get a bit Hmm when I get called Ms.
I am Mrs.
It is what make us a family unit . Mr Jamdonut, me and the three young Jamdonuts.
I like the title
Sorry, but I just do. But each to their own.

insancerre · 23/06/2012 19:42

YABU
I'm with jamdonut

DartsAgain · 23/06/2012 20:23

I am the mum in a family unit. I have not, and never will, change my name. I am my own person and don't need to be known as Mrs or whatever. It has not made us any less close as a family unit.

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 23/06/2012 20:54

Same as for Darts, name and title have no bearing on our closeness as a family unit. I will never call myself Mrs.

jamdonut · 24/06/2012 17:44

I am MY own person,that didn't change when I became Mrs! BUT, I like being a wife to someone,and the unity of us all having the same surname. I don't get what's wrong with that. I wish those of you who don't like to use your married title wouldn't keep putting those of us who do,down.

From working in a school,though, it gets very confusing when family members have different surnames from each other, and you don't want to insult someone by calling them Miss,Ms or Mrs,if they are not, but you don't want to seem direspectful and use a first name. Not everyone likes to be called by their first name by teachers,doctors,nurses etc.

Guava · 24/06/2012 18:44

It's relationships that make a family unit, not a set of letters.

I think it would be fair enough to equalise things. So either women are all Ms, or men have to declare whether they are Mr or Master.

eurochick · 24/06/2012 18:53

It is very odd to have titles for women only on that list.

But rather than have titles for men that denote marital status, I would prefer that the titles given to women didn't. (Yes, I am a Ms and have been since I was about 15.)

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 24/06/2012 18:57

Jam - the school confusion thing is precisely why it would be so much better if all women were called Ms to my mind. Even if there is still some surname confusion. I like being a wife to someone too, I just don't need it reflected in my name. As you say, each to their own.

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