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AIBU?

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to think this Mum was out of order?

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madmomma · 13/06/2012 18:55

At toddler group this morning & there's a regular there who brings a boy of about 14m. He's in a hitting phase, as is common at that age. So he's really on a mission this little lad - going up to any child he can find and hitting them over and over.
The first few times it happens she gets up and says 'no' to him + apologises to the victim. Fine. But he's not bothered about being told off (I know that one)so he carries on. At this point she starts to hover vaguely around him whilst he merrily hits every child he can find. It was carnage! And every time he does it she says 'no' to him but then he carries on. So AIBU to think that when your child is in this kind of phase/mood you stick to them like glue to stop them beforethey hit the next kid? By the end of the session he must've hit 30 kids, including young babies. Mums were having to guard their babies against him FGS! I know it's impossible to prevent the odd slap or push but she was just kind of waiting for him to hit the next child without physically preventing him at all. Bloody drove me mad it did!

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PomBearWithAnOFRS · 13/06/2012 18:57

So why didn't you say something to her? Why didn't any of the other mothers say anything to her? you all sat and watched him too... I'd be damned if I'd sit there and let someone's child hit mine and any other he could reach just because his mother is incapable of stopping him Hmm

BarredfromhavingStella · 13/06/2012 20:40

Yeah I'm inclined to agree, would've definitely stepped in & advised her she needed to be slightly more on the ball.

madmomma · 13/06/2012 20:45

I guess you must have bigger balls than me. I didn't let him hit mine after the first time and I did what I could to prevent him hitting the children within reach of me. And his Mother wasn't incapable was she? That's the point. She chose to chastise him after the damage was done. Hence the AIBU

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ThreadWatcher · 13/06/2012 21:00

Perhaps he likes the attention he gets every time he hits another child?

I havent had a 14mo for a loooong time but that was what struck me on reading your op!

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