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To think that people have the principles they can afford?

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Hullygully · 13/06/2012 15:24

Do you have, or know anyone that does, principles that would absolutely not be ditched in the event of greater wealth?

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OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 14/06/2012 10:26

I think it's still weak Hully. Not in a bad way, or in a way that makes a bad person. But if you don't know the truth about your own opinions then that's not exactly strong is it?

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:27

It's all very hard

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Whatmeworry · 14/06/2012 10:28

But then when red nose day comes along and I have a choice between sticking to my principle or allowing my child to be left out of something, I abandon my principle like a hot brick! I don't like it, but it's the lesser of two evils to me.

I agree with that - I am also very against making my children fight for my principles, to their detriment.

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:28

I really must work, very grateful for all the thoughts.

Would still like a system.

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wordfactory · 14/06/2012 10:29

tewe I htik you are right.

In my yoof I held very strong principles on economics while knoiwng little about it. I also held principles on business while having never run one.

Now I know somehting of economics and have run my own business...I have a rather more enlightened approach.

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:32

I'll start a thread about belief systems later.

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Whatmeworry · 14/06/2012 10:34

Now I know somehting of economics and have run my own business...I have a rather more enlightened approach.

Me too - I have also somewhat downgraded my youthfully optimistic views on human nature.

AbsofAwesomeness · 14/06/2012 10:36

So you want to find some principles? Surely it's not something you can pick up off a thread on MN (partly also because you could pick up some VERY odd and random principles) but something that develops over time. Also, in what arena? Be principled about what you eat?Where you live? Your mode of transport? If it's something you feel strongly about you probs would have develped some kind of principle around this previously.

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:37

Yes abs, but I am being told I am not allowed t have mine because they are in contradiction with my life. I am trying to work out some kind of acceptable (to me) synthesis I suppose.

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Trills · 14/06/2012 10:38

Can you tell us the dilemma?

AbsofAwesomeness · 14/06/2012 10:38

Yes, come and tell us. We won't judge much

OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 14/06/2012 10:38

What principles aren't you allowed to have because of your life Hully?

TheOriginalSteamingNit · 14/06/2012 10:39

Undoubtedly some do, yes. I can think of a few who've ditched principles on several things when convenient, and I think it's a bit lame.

But it's a leap to say that all principles are contingent.

ExitPursuedByABear · 14/06/2012 10:40

So, you have left wing principles and a right wing lifestlye Wink

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:40

I am not allowed my socialist beliefs because I live like a capitalist

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Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:40

Not a right wing lifestyle, but a capitalist one, yes.

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Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:41

Not private school or medicine (tho did have a few brief private school years for dc)

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hackmum · 14/06/2012 10:42

Hully - I have this constant argument with my DP. I'll say "I want to move to a bigger house." He says, "But you call yourself a socialist!" as if this is some kind of clinching argument. Personally, I don't see why socialists shouldn't be able to live in big houses if they want to. It's not as if the money we save by living in a smaller house is going to build wells for people in rural Uganda or something.

EdgarAllenPimms · 14/06/2012 10:42

i really can't see how having more money wouldn't allow us to follow our principles more rather than less,

less compromise would be necessary.

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:43

I am a champagne socialist

out and proud

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ExitPursuedByABear · 14/06/2012 10:43

Surely we all do the best we can to live a good life.

As long as you are not hurting anyone or trampling people underfoot you can have a clear conscience - no?

EdgarAllenPimms · 14/06/2012 10:43

what is the difference between 'right-wing' lifestyle and 'capitalist'?

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:43

It's how you get the money, edgar. Apparently.

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AbsofAwesomeness · 14/06/2012 10:44

Well, it depends on what kind of socialist beliefs. In the Communist Manifesto it names free universal education and healthcare as being a communist ideal. Bar many Americans, most people living in "capitalist" societies would not object to either of those.

Right wing/Left wing/Capitalist/Socialist principles are much more fluid than they used to be.

Hullygully · 14/06/2012 10:45

Edgar - I mean I live in a capitalist system and work within it for my own and my family and friends advantage, but I am not right wing and do not hold right wing views.

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