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aibu to think someone who is size 8 is not 'curvy'

87 replies

youtalkin2me · 30/05/2012 16:01

I'm so sick of seeing slim celebs described as curvy!! It sends out such a bad message to young girls. Don't get me wrong I think these celebs look great & if I had their bods I'd be flaunting it in a bikini all the while Envy , but just cos they have big knockers does not make them curvy!! I am a size 14 and not jealous at all I would describe myself as curvy, someone who is a size 8 imho is slim.

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PorkyandBess · 30/05/2012 17:26

I always think curvy is a euphemism for fat. I have not seen it used in the media to describe thin women.

KateSpade · 30/05/2012 17:31

I may well be repeating some of the other posters, however i am going to say it again.

Curvy is not a nice word for fat!

AdventuresWithVoles · 30/05/2012 17:40

If a woman is slender, so not fat, but still with curves, what is she called by media if she's not "curvy"? Confused

BandersnatchCummerbund · 30/05/2012 17:46

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EdgarAllenPimms · 30/05/2012 17:47

at the height of my yoof i was 32-19-35

very curvy. and then a size 10-12 depending.

now...i am just curvy in the euphemistic sense. and still, allegedly, only a 12 14 ...

so, OP YABu. you can be slim and curvy.

SugarBatty · 30/05/2012 18:23

I think I know what op means!

I'm a size 14 to 16. Small waist, biggish boobs and a fat ass. So I'm quite curvy (but still a bit fat!)

If your a size 8 your obviously going to be slim and could be curvy. There should be two types of curvy, slimcurvy and chunkycurvy!

when slim celebs are described of curvy I think "oh great I don't look like that I must just be fat if SHE'S curvy!"

I'm sure all you lucky slimcurvys wouuld be kind enough to just be called slim and leave us big'uns with the curvy title! Grin

LucieMay · 30/05/2012 18:24

Curvy is a shape, not a size. Smile

Frontpaw · 30/05/2012 18:27

When I was an 8 (in the mists of time) I had a 'proper' figure - boobs and hips same size and waist 10 inches smaller. Now its pretty much the opposite!

yellowraincoat · 30/05/2012 18:27

YABU

Unless you're meaning curvy as the current euphemism for fat. Nothing wrong with being fat.

I'm a size 6 but I have boobs and a bum and a belly. I'm not straight up and down at all, I just have small shoulders and a small frame in general.

Mama1980 · 30/05/2012 18:30

Yabu I am a size 8-10 but I have hips, a fairly small waist and biggish boobs. Def not straight up and down just have a small frame.

monkeymoma · 30/05/2012 18:33

YAB totally U!

I am more curvy when size 8-10 than when I'm a size, at a size 8-10 I go out and in and out again, at size 14 the in bits get filled in and I'm LESS curvy

some size 8s are up and down and have boyish figures, some are very curvy, christina ricci is TINY and very curvy! Similarly some larger ladies are anything but curvy!

FFS slim woman can be curvy and "real" Hmm

monkeymoma · 30/05/2012 18:35

actually, IMO its very RARE for larger woman to be curvy as in coke bottle shaped, some plus sized models are but they don't tend to be typical shapes for their size they often look like enlarged slim ladies if that makes sense

yellowraincoat · 30/05/2012 18:35

I'm not monkeymona. I'm a fake woman.

Ah boo hoo hoo.

PrinceRogersNelson · 30/05/2012 18:36

I'm size 8 and curvy. I have a bigger bum compared to my waist. It is just in smaller proportions to someone at a size 16 or whatever.

monkeymoma · 30/05/2012 18:36

yeah you sound like a virtual person, a stick drawing come to life Hmm

yellowraincoat · 30/05/2012 18:38

That's it, monkeymoma.

I am just a collection of poorly-drawn lines, wrapped up in some skin.

Also, I don't eat. I never, ever eat.

MedusaIsHavingABadHairDay · 30/05/2012 18:38

my DD2 who is 18, is a size 8 but with J cup boobs! Nightmare when trying to buy dresses but she is most definitely curvy!! And gorgeous.. Grin

monkeymoma · 30/05/2012 18:39

but is she real medusa?, or some sort of computer generated pretend woman? Grin

sassytheFIRST · 30/05/2012 18:41

My stats are 40-29-39. Bit on the chubby side (at 5ft7) but definitely curvy.

Aged 20, they were 37-23-34. Lovely and slim - still decidedly curvy.

It's the tits. I blame my v well endowed grannie.

sassytheFIRST · 30/05/2012 18:41

Tits these days are 30j.

Goldenbear · 30/05/2012 18:56

If you are 5ft or 4ft 12 I think you could definitely be curvy at size 8.

yellowraincoat · 30/05/2012 18:57

4ft 12? Tee hee.

I am 5ft1, but not sure what height has to do with it to be honest. Why can't you be tall, slim and curvy?

HmmThinkingAboutIt · 30/05/2012 19:04

YABVVVU.

'Curves' have nothing to do with dress size. You are being sizeist and rather ignorant. Curves are about body proportion. You can be 6' 0" and have the same waist to hip ratio as someone who is 5'2". Both would have completely different dress sizes but would still be just as curvy.

I am a size 4 - 6. I am definitely curvy. I 'm kind of wondering what you would call my boobs and bum if they aren't curvy. 28F here. Can all us 'not curvy people' have a new word seeing as you want to redefine the word that best describes us?

As for the usual Marilyn thing... Marilyn had measurements that would equate to a modern date 6-8. She is very similar to Scarlett Johanson in her height and figure. I would link to all the relevant bits on this, but I've done it before and unless someone is really interested I can't be bothered to do it again.

The most 'sexy' waist to hip ratio is considered to be 0.7 in the West (it varies slightly throughout the world, though by surprisingly little even in cultures which are not as influenced by media). Its thought to be connected to indicators of fertility. Marilyn was a perfect 0.7. She was most definitely curvy by any definition of the word.

bruffin · 30/05/2012 19:10

When I was an old fashioned size 8, probably size 4 nowadays I was curvy, with a proper waist and boobs and hips I am 5,2. think the stats were 32,22,34
My DD is taller than me probably 5'5 and a modern size 8 and very curvy!

DinahMoHum · 30/05/2012 19:11

you can be slim and curvy.
Curvy doesnt mean fat.

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