I'm recently married. I'm normally quite a laid back person and when my initial reaction is anger or upset, I try to calm down and assess things before I say or do something I regret. In short, Im not highly strung or prone to over-reaction.
I am also not the jealous type but....today there was a post on Facebook, on my dh's wall from a local strip club, thanking him for the friend request and saying how they hope to see him soon, for some fun with hot girls.
He has commented saying, 'I didn't do this' but only after a couple of his mates 'liked' it, 2 of mine posted sarcastic comments and one a confused comment.
Either way he is and remains hours later, 'friends' with this club. I don't now if it makes any difference but this club is notorious for offering more than a dance too.
I don't know how I feel about strip clubs. Ive always said they don't bother but I suppose in the past I was considering them in the context of Stag parties? Now he's my husband, I feel differently. Im also angry that everyone has seen this, including my family and friends. Im hurt and embarrassed.
He's asleep now, but tomorrow when we of course talk about it, he will say he didn't 'add' them. Is there any other way of them becoming his friend??
Am I being unreasonable to be cross and upset right now? Or is this just something that men do?