Tethers - your post of 17.40 made me cry. My stepfather has a sister called Shirley and she is sooooooo nice and very very beautiful - she always was and is now even at 80!! No great aunt could have treated my dc more lovingly, even a "real" one.
CONGRATULATIONS - OOH BABIES ARE LOVELY. Make sure you try to love yourself as much as you love Shirley.