Knowing what i know, i get cross when people just take it for granted that because they have got a positive preg test that the next thing to worry about it the birth and the MS.

[tightwad]

It really grates on me when they get that BFP and then rattle on about stuff way in the future.

What about now, and mc? People presume that everything is going to go swimmingly and sometimes i scream in my head....everything can go wrong at any moment...this is not a given.

I am bitter, i have had reoccurring mc, so cant help the way i feel. Some of it is of course jealousy that i desperately wanted to worry about the birth and oh God, what if my ms is awful instead of "Oh God, when is the bleeding going to start?" and never checking due dates as i doubt i will get there.

I've only had one MC but it was enough to make me very, very nervous when any friends have announced pregnancies. One of my friends told everyone the day she got the BFP and it was all I could do not to scream at her to shut up, be careful, you don't know how it might end etc etc. I know IWBU to voice it so I don't but it's hard to shut down the voice in your head. So I know the feeling OP and YANBU.