Went to a kiddies birthday party with 7 week old DS and was sat with someone's MIL who is a strain at the best of times..
Comments included
'Your baby's feet are too cold you know'
'That won't keep the sun out of his eyes..why didn't you bring a better hat?'
'He's spit up quite a lot hasn't he? You should probably feed him less'
But what really got my back up was her asking me loudly infront of a room full of people I don't know, 'is the father involved?'
I am a single mum, but I am a 21 year old woman not some teenager that got knocked up. I see this woman once a year if I'm unlucky so AIBU to think it was totally inappropriate and rude for her to ask me that in that way?! Grrr!
(I answered a quick yes and carried on my conversation fwiw)