I went to visit a friend who's just had a baby today. Asked DH yesterday if he could look after DD (1 year, 2 months) today. He agreed. I left about 1, said I'd be back 4, 4.30, depending on transport. Transport was awful so I rang DH just before 4.30 and said I was going to be late and could he give DD her dinner. He was so angry he put phone down on me, basically said I was out of order for making DD late for her dinner (didn't explain why he couldn't do it himself). I rang him on the way home saying what would he like to eat, he said nothing, he wasn't hungry. Got home, DD was fine, he had managed to make her some dinner (he could equally just as easily have gone to the shop had there been nothing in the house so I didn't see what the problem was.) He gave me both barrels about how annoyed he was and then went off to the pub for two and a half hours in a sulk. On his own. Am I missing something, or is that a disproportionate response to a fairly minor crime?