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to think that putting jelly in trifle is a very common thing to do?

220 replies

DameHermione · 22/04/2012 21:00

Trifle,when made properly does not have jelly.

Cake, some sort of juice, whether sherry or juice or liqure, fruit, custard and cream.

No jelly.

It is such a disappointment to dig in and discover a layer of insipid eobbliness.

AIBU to suggest real trifle has no jelly and to add it smacks of the lower classes?

OP posts:
stealthsquiggle · 23/04/2012 15:07

stubborn I think ginger cake (of the Jamaican variety) would overwhelm the rhubarb. Some stem ginger (in with the madeira cake), or a little Stones Ginger wine would be good though.

We have three quarters half of the trifle (sponge fingers, jelly, custard, cream and raspberries) DD made left and it is shouting at me from the 'fridge.

sootie · 23/04/2012 15:17

I like my trifle to have a layer of lady fingers, then jam, then custard, raspberries, more lady fingers, beef sauteed with peas and onions, custard and bananas and finally some whipped cream.

MMMMMMMMmmmmmmmm

YonWhaleFish · 23/04/2012 15:18

Alright joey?? Grin

sootie · 23/04/2012 15:19

Grin....even though it tastes like feet Grin

NoMoreCakeOclock · 23/04/2012 15:29

In Malaysia I once got a drink with jelly pieces in. It came with an extra big straw and I almost spat it all out when I felt the little pieces in my mouth. Turns out it was amazing!

Nothing to do with trifle though. Trifle is a rubbish dessert.

stubbornstains · 23/04/2012 15:50

Mmmm....

Right.

Madeira cake. Ginger wine. (although that means I'm going to have to buy a bottle and drink the rest of it, doesn't it?)
Orange jelly.

Rhubarb, custard, cream etc...

Ecclescakes I don't see any alternative to you having to get your anorak on...

By the way, are they not called boudoir fingers rather than lady fingers?

(possibly the best named food product outside Lidl)

Calamityboo · 23/04/2012 15:55
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Molehillmountain · 23/04/2012 17:31

Okra = lady fingers? = best kept well away from trifle (or anything but that's a different thread!)

bejeezus · 23/04/2012 21:21

They are just called 'sponge fingers' aren't they?

stubbornstains · 23/04/2012 21:23

In ASDA they are definitely called boudoir fingers, at any rate.

(C'mon, someone back me up on this! Don't make me look like a crazy lady!)

MrsHelsBels74 · 23/04/2012 21:30

Just eaten trifle with jelly & it was lovely!

bejeezus · 23/04/2012 21:54

Are you sure you is in Asda and not Waitrose? Boudoir fingers sounds posh

Catsmamma · 23/04/2012 22:06

the scale is

trifle sponges
sponge fingers
boudoir biscuits
savoiiardi biscuits

and NoMoreCakeOClocke that would be Bubble Tea, you can buy the massive tapioca pearls in most chinese supermarkets :D

stubbornstains · 23/04/2012 22:10

Don't make me have to go to ASDA, buy a pack of boudoir fingers, take a photo and then upload it onto my profile! (sobs)

Blatherskite · 23/04/2012 22:15

Wikipedia cannot be wrong

lolajane2009 · 23/04/2012 22:16

yabu and a snob

ethelb · 23/04/2012 22:22

putting jelly in a grown up dessert is common and naff

PortHills · 23/04/2012 22:27

I was always told that Scottish trifle doesn't have jelly, but that English does. But maybe my Scottish family are just posher than my English family Grin

RubyGates · 23/04/2012 22:31

Don't care. I is a viscountess. I can stick jelly in me trifle if I wants to. Ner.

Tanith · 24/04/2012 00:11

Waitrose put jelly in their trifles, which I reckon settles the "common" argument Smile

If jelly is not in the purist trifle, then what should we call that delectable jelly, fruit, custard and cream filled pudding topped with hundreds and thousands?!

SodoffBaldrick · 24/04/2012 01:21

This thread is hilarious. Grin

Trifle is the food of the Gods and Dame, YADNBU - jelly has no place in trifle.

I am loving your delightfully non-U muffin-and-Baileys based abomination, though. That is so getting made.

ComposHat · 24/04/2012 01:33

Bloody hell! Has anyone eaten Trifle since the 1970s?

I thought it had died a death along with Bird's Angel Delight, Black Forest Gatuex and Lemon Meringue, around about the time of the three day week.

Regardless of its constituent parts, trifle is the epitome of 1970s surburbanite naff. I bet Beverely knocked up a trifle in Abigail's Party.

ComposHat · 24/04/2012 01:34

boudoir fingers

That sounds FILTHY!

duchesse · 24/04/2012 01:37

Urgh, how very dare you even mention the foul stuff? Will now have nightmares.

ComposHat · 24/04/2012 01:41

Trifle is indeed vile stuff, but I did used to like nicking those orange and lemon jellies that were bunged on top.