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to think that putting jelly in trifle is a very common thing to do?

220 replies

DameHermione · 22/04/2012 21:00

Trifle,when made properly does not have jelly.

Cake, some sort of juice, whether sherry or juice or liqure, fruit, custard and cream.

No jelly.

It is such a disappointment to dig in and discover a layer of insipid eobbliness.

AIBU to suggest real trifle has no jelly and to add it smacks of the lower classes?

OP posts:
BestLaidPlans · 22/04/2012 21:45

My Swiss rolls tend not to be rolls so much as, well, crumbly piles of sticky cake. Mary Berry looks v decisive when she rolls hers, I think that's where I'm going wrong. Too wimpy.

thehairybabysmum · 22/04/2012 21:48

I didn't know you could even make a trifle without jelly!? Sounds odd Grin

Still I am defo lower class (just well educated!)

TalcAndTurnips · 22/04/2012 21:49

Fabulous retro Black Forest trifle:

Chocolate swiss roll in bottom of dish
A few shavings of dark chocolate
Black cherries in Kirsch scattered on - liberal amounts of Kirsch slopped in too
Chocolate blancmange/custard glugged on
Shitloads of whipped cream
More shavings of dark chocolate

Bloody deelish and you can also enjoy Granny getting pished as she bolts down her third bowlful.

PurplePidjin · 22/04/2012 21:50

Trifle without jelly is just cake and custard Confused

GnomeDePlume · 22/04/2012 21:50

OP - YABU, you horsewhip the lower classes, you dont smack them. Smacking is what Nanny does.

Rather doesnt that just leave you with tinned fruit?

Lizzabadger · 22/04/2012 21:51

I heard that they started putting jelly in trifle during the war or something as a substitute for fruit when it was scarce.

Chubfuddler · 22/04/2012 21:51

Ooh no you don't make jelly and chop it up and spread over the sponge. You pour the liquid jelly over the sponge and tinned fruit and let it set. Then layer up the custard and cream.

Badgerina · 22/04/2012 21:51

YANBU! Jelly in trifle? Whatever next, milk in first!? Shock

ReactionaryFish · 22/04/2012 21:52

Am still boaking at the idea of chocolate custard. No no a thousand times no. Far too sickly.

Blatherskite · 22/04/2012 21:58

Not lady fingers! What you need is Jaffa cakes.

Arrange Jaffa cakes in the bottom of a trifle bowl. Add orange Jelly and mandarin segments from a tin. Top with chocolate Angle Delight and finish with cream - in fact make it Dream Topping for preference - crumbled flake and mini jaffa cakes.

Chocolate orange trifle - yum.

Haberdashery · 22/04/2012 22:00

Oh my god, chocolate trifle is the wrongest thing I have ever heard of. I cannot believe you have the sheer brass neck to complain about jelly (which is, of course, delicious in trifle).

mrspnut · 22/04/2012 22:03

I've made that black forest trifles few times as well as nigella's limoncello and raspberry trifle.

I like to be able to get pissed from a trifle.

celticlassie · 22/04/2012 22:18

When Rachel made trifle in friends she said jam, not jelly.

But she also added beef so maybe not a good example...

KurriKurri · 22/04/2012 22:19

I think the more things you can get in a trifle the better. I sometimes make a huge one and use 2 jellies Shock. I also throw in a load of fruit, sherry, chopped up sponge cake, custard (Bird's natch) whipped cream and crushed chocolate flake.

If a trifle doesn't have 2000 calories per serving, then there's something seriously wrong. Grin

piprabbit · 22/04/2012 22:20

My lovely Yorkshire Grannie never put jelly in trifle. She would have had palpitations at the very idea. In her honour, my trifles are also jelly-free.

Hassled · 22/04/2012 22:22

Delia's trifles are jelly free. And Delia is god (OTBC!).
So - no jellies in my trifles.

pringlesmakethebedcrunchy · 22/04/2012 22:23
  1. home-made sponge (or shop-bought bashed about a bit)
  2. liquour-soaked fruit (I like raspberries as they seem quite absorbent.
  3. home-made vodka, gin or sloe gin jelly.
  4. slices of banana
  5. syllabub (with plenty of liquour).

Is the rule.

KurriKurri · 22/04/2012 22:24
Grin
lisaro · 22/04/2012 22:27

To spell liquer incorrectly is 'common'. HTH

CharltonHairstyle · 22/04/2012 22:29

I'd have it either way - common or not.

I think that just makes me greedy Grin

Plaguegroups · 22/04/2012 22:30

Trifle is revolting, I hate jelly, hate soggy sponge cake, hate tinned fruit and hate sherry.

I actually quite like the sound of a chocolate muffin/baileys/chocolate custard pudding but that is probably because it contains no trifle ingredients and has no resemblance to what most people would call trifle. Smile

2rebecca · 22/04/2012 22:32

I cool my jelly until it is starting to set then add it. The custard has to be cold as well otherwise it melts the jelly, but too cold and it won't set smooth. A good trifle takes timing and artistry!

ivykaty44 · 22/04/2012 22:34

Why does it have to be common - why can't it be chavy then it would be great as I love jelly in trifle with loadsa sherry and I can be a right chav

Haberdashery · 22/04/2012 22:35

No banana! You people are deranged. It has to be red fruits or peaches. Anything else is bizarre.

Tanith · 22/04/2012 22:37

I used to mind a very fussy eater when my DS was about 4, the same age as she was. She refused to eat anything that had what she called "bits" in it. She did, however, love her puddings - they usually do Smile

One day, I decided to try and take advantage of her pudding love by making a trifle. It was the common one with jelly and fruit in the bottom - sorry, Purists Blush

I dished it up. She took up her spoon and was just about to tuck in when DS piped up "Oh you won't like this, J - it's got bits in it!"
Then, as she violently shoved it away: "Can I have hers if she won't eat it?"

The squabble when she realised he'd tricked her was epic!

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