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to think that putting jelly in trifle is a very common thing to do?

220 replies

DameHermione · 22/04/2012 21:00

Trifle,when made properly does not have jelly.

Cake, some sort of juice, whether sherry or juice or liqure, fruit, custard and cream.

No jelly.

It is such a disappointment to dig in and discover a layer of insipid eobbliness.

AIBU to suggest real trifle has no jelly and to add it smacks of the lower classes?

OP posts:
pinkhebe · 22/04/2012 21:09

My Mum decorates the Xmas trifle with bits of jelly. But it has to be green jelly. It's the law apparently

bronze · 22/04/2012 21:09

It didn't have half the stuff it has now orginally
so why just pick on jelly

TartyMcFarty · 22/04/2012 21:10

YANBU. Jelly made with trifle is common, and if it's made with tinned fruit cocktail, Sherry. Lashings of it. Hic.

MizK · 22/04/2012 21:10

Urgh, jelly in trifle is gross.

but so is referring to things as 'common'

maybe a namechange to DameHyacinth, OP? :)

scuzy · 22/04/2012 21:10

i actually cut up a shop bought swiss roll and place the circles in a bowl and pour the jelly over it to set.

yum!

thisisyesterday · 22/04/2012 21:10

but ultimately, does it matter???

if you like it who cares?

AIBU to suggest that real trifle is biscuit, alcohol and custard?

and if you add anything else you're a heathen who knows nothing of the history of food?

CrumpettyTree · 22/04/2012 21:10

[Chucks a layer of insipid eobbliness at OP]

SauvignonBlanche · 22/04/2012 21:11

YANBU, I agree with you about the jelly but think you could have been a bit more diplomatic about such a contentious issue.

hf128219 · 22/04/2012 21:11

I think you are an inverted snob. If you were a toff you wouldn't give a toss.

molepom · 22/04/2012 21:11

I add Mailu to the jelly in my trifle and my exMIL does a smashing trifle where she uses so much alcohol, you can get drunk just off the fumes....watching her make it is hillarious..

One for the trifle, one for me
One for the trifle TWO for me...and so on and so forth.

tittytittyhanghang · 22/04/2012 21:11

surely without jelly then all you have at the bottom is soggy cake?

chipmunksex · 22/04/2012 21:11

I love trifle and it should have jelly in it.

You are just snobby.

scuzy · 22/04/2012 21:11

i love the way people get so defensive and serious .... i think the OP is posting in jest and if not its still funny.

storminabuttercup · 22/04/2012 21:11

I like jelly in trifle

And hundreds and thousands on top

EnjoyResponsibly · 22/04/2012 21:12

I don't care if it's got jelly in or not trifle is beyond revolting.

The varying conflicting textures, the hundreds and thousands and occasionally banana stack up to a combination only Lucifer himself could have concocted.

DameHermione · 22/04/2012 21:12

Its not a question of historical significance nor originality but a question of class.

Real trifle does not have jelly. The masses and lower classes may add it if they see fit.

OP posts:
Pinkiemum · 22/04/2012 21:12

Never in my life have I had trifle without jelly, I do not like the inference that my mother and Nana are/were common.

Stopusingallthenn · 22/04/2012 21:13

Now.Trifle with or without jelly is the food of the Gods.

Leave it alone Angry

Birdsgottafly · 22/04/2012 21:13

I thought that you set the fruit into the jelly?

chipmunksex · 22/04/2012 21:13

But not hundreds and thousands-they are too crunchy.

FannyFifer · 22/04/2012 21:13

No jelly in trifle, yuk.
Bottom layer Madeira cake all broken up, warm up some jam, preferably home made. Pour jam all over cake, leave to cool, poor whiskey or Sherry over it.
Then a layer of quite thick custard, then thick whipped cream on top with chocolate for decoration, YUM.

Weddellway · 22/04/2012 21:13

What's best? Trifle with jelly or trifle without jelly...there's only one way to find out.....

thisisyesterday · 22/04/2012 21:13

i'm not convinced the american author means jam anyway because he says "jam and jelly"

scuzy · 22/04/2012 21:14

i grate a flake over the cream layer on top and then devour the rest before anyone sees me.

SauvignonBlanche · 22/04/2012 21:14

FIGHT!

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