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To tell you what I just saw on facebook?

28 replies

TallyMeBanana · 13/04/2012 15:11

Im Shock and also Shock and need lots of Wine to block out the image I have in my head!

Some girls I grew up with posted a pic of a guy on facebook for revenge!
His face is in full view and its of him naked with his leg up on the bath wanking doing something!

Im so sorry to give the details but just to get you to understand why im so shocked is because
a) they are friends with their own kids on FB so they will see
b) I know this guy, he works in the same hospital as me!!!!

My eyes are bleeding!!!!!

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WorraLiberty · 13/04/2012 15:13

Bastards!

I hope you reported it and them?

StrandedBear · 13/04/2012 15:13

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

PregolaLola · 13/04/2012 15:14

Work should be....different.

thestringcheesemassacre · 13/04/2012 15:14

They are bullies.
If you are friends with the guy or have his number phone him to let him know.

Agree with Worra, report.

manicbmc · 13/04/2012 15:14

Revenge for what?

PregolaLola · 13/04/2012 15:15

Agree if you haven't already do report it, i'm sure he will be mortified.

bobbledunk · 13/04/2012 15:18

How vile of them, poor guySad. What nasty bitches they are, this is bullying. Report it.

TallyMeBanana · 13/04/2012 15:20

Its been removed already!
I cannot believe someone would do that to another person, we live in a smallish town so im sure plenty of people have seen it already!

Im not friends with him on facebook and not in work until next week but im sure it will be the talk of the hospital!

Poor Bloke!

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laughlovelife · 13/04/2012 15:21

report it, or email him/text him, to let him know its on, and then defriend the idiot who done it, Id not want to be associated with such low people.

D0oinMeCleanin · 13/04/2012 15:21

What had he done to warrent that? Poor sod. I'd be filing charges against them for ?something? if I was him.

TallyMeBanana · 13/04/2012 15:22

Not sure exactly what he did but as far as I know he cheated on some girl with a bloke. It's her friends that have posted it!

That doesn't warrant that kind of behaviour though! These are 30 year old women!

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boredandrestless · 13/04/2012 15:22
Shock
TallyMeBanana · 13/04/2012 15:24

He already knows as far as I can tell.

One of the women has just posted about it. She said that he's just wrote on his wall that they have ruined his life! I bet!

Deleted they are!!!!

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Shriekable · 13/04/2012 15:27

How do you suppose they would feel if a couple of blokes had posted a picture of one of them naked whilst 'doing themselves a favour' ? Horrible, horrible people.

sausagesandmarmelade · 13/04/2012 15:29

Yep....they are nasty bullies

manicbmc · 13/04/2012 15:31

What vile people.

keepthechangeyoufilthyanimal · 13/04/2012 15:31

[shocked] what cowbags! FGS some people need to grow up!
I would absolutely die if someone did that to me!

keepthechangeyoufilthyanimal · 13/04/2012 15:31

Shock rather

sausagesandmarmelade · 13/04/2012 15:32

The good thing is that internet bullies/trolls used to get away with this kind of thing....

Not any more. They can find themselves prosecuted.

Suggest you contact someone in the group and remind them of this....and get them to take the picture down.

TallyMeBanana · 13/04/2012 15:35

Hopefully they will get removed from facebook indefinitely! I don't want to see that! Im no prude but thats just disgusting!

This guy has kids and a teenage daughter on facebook too!
What is the matter with some people?

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GrahamTribe · 13/04/2012 15:36

It's an extreme thing to do just because he cheated on a girlfriend but for him to say the poster/s have "ruined his life" is a bit over the top too. Cancer ruins lives. Widowhood ruins lives. Domestic violence ruins lives. Photos of a man wanking are way down on the scale.

The women concerned are guilty of a crime, it's a Section 5 offence, maybe they need warning of this, either by one of those on the FB pages or the police themselves?

sausagesandmarmelade · 13/04/2012 15:37

I hope he is getting some support re all this....
He must be feeling terribly humiliated.

People have committed suicide over such things..

D0oinMeCleanin · 13/04/2012 15:37

Poor bloke. Could you text him a message of support and suggest he tries pressing charges? Surely this is illegal, invasion of privacy or harrasment or something?

picnicbasketcase · 13/04/2012 15:38

Sigh. FB can be great, but it's also such an easy way for folk to be complete tools.

cocolepew · 13/04/2012 15:38

How horrible. I was reading an article in this weeks Grazia about people (mostly men it seems) who post sex tapes or intimate photos on a 'revenge' website, where anybody can see them.