AIBU to spray paint my car a camoflage colour or hide it under leaves on my day off

[scuzy]

I work full time so when I book a day off work I still get up, take ds to creche, come back and catch up on house work at my leisure catch up on programs recorded, get a nice long shower etc.

however being surrounded by in laws i get caught for babysitting as soon as they see my car outside the door.

i'd rather work!! day is wasted. its my me time day.

AIBU or selfish?

YANBU- if your kids are in creche why on earth would inlaws think you would want their kids?

No is a complete sentence- or park the car around the corner............

if i was phoned perhaps could make an excuse but they walk in and say "any chance ... blah blah blah, back in an hour". hour my arse.

even happens when off sick on a cert!!

Lock the doors and keep the keys in the lock.

they knock on the window,walk around house and wave at me as I do sometimes lock the door when getting a shower etc. lol. seriously i am not making this up!

Can you park around the corner? Not that you should have to, but if they're so intrusive.
How do you bear it? It would drive me potty.

i may start parking around the corner. but if i am off for a day it goes around like wild fire. its annoying ruins my whole day!

Time to move house.

it happened today and was told be back in an hour at 2pm. they came back at 7pm and even said they were at their house (few doors down) since 5.30pm. i cooked dinner for dp and ds and niece. doesnt normally happen but didnt have a dinner myself as hadnt enough to stretch as am due to do a food shop tomorrow.

winkly sounds tempting but not possible.

I'd throw a paddy.

Worra fucking liberty!

If they try it again say sorry no I've got an appointment in 5 minutes so I can't have the kids.

It's not a lie - you have an appointment (with yourself, to watch tv and relax).

The cheek of it!

scuzy you need to say no, answer the door naked wrapped in a towel and say "sorry, not today thank you"

I would not put up with this!

You don't need a lie or an excuse. Fuck off no is a complete sentence, after all.

Barronness!

yes maybe i should answer in my towel, they would run screaming!

its pissing me off but am going to have to be more assertive.

tell them you have a sickness bug! job done!