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to want to take my pushchair into my doctors surgery?

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gillquil · 09/04/2012 22:39

my g.p surgery has just banned pushchairs, I've them a letter that follows, is this the norm? or should I just change our G.P.?

Hello,

I would like to make a complaint about the forthcoming ban on pushchairs in the surgery from the first of April. I am a mother of three, my eldest child has just turned four and we have a double pushchair which we normally use for our two youngest. My youngest child has just turned one, and as is typical for his age, he wants to crawl and climb all the time, he definitely doesn?t want to sit on my lap while I wait, he will however normally wait happily in his pushchair, or sleep in it while we wait or during our appointments. My two year old daughter just wants to run around.

If I am unable to bring my pushchair into the surgery I am going to have to let my son crawl over the floor in the surgery which I can?t imagine being the most hygienic thing to do. Or when he is asleep I will have to wake him, and what if both he and his sister are sleeping? do I really want to wait for my appointment struggling with a sobbing two year old daughter and a crying one year old son, my handbag, and changing bag on the floor or on the seat next to me. All of which, toddler, and baby and baggage have to then be carried into the appointment. I would also like to know what is suggested for mothers who need for example to have their young child with them during say a smear test? Should I leave him to crawl around the floor in the surgery during this?

Parents that I know often rely on being able to entertain a young child or children in a pushchair so that they can speak to their G.P. or nurse for a few minutes uninterrupted. Or the child sleeps on through their appointment and waiting time, and the parent can have a proper conversation or treatment.
I don?t have the option of arranging childcare for the times when I need to come to the surgery, especially as we normally ring at 8 a.m to see what appointment we can get if any for that morning.

I asked about the security of the area that has been designated for pushchairs to be left. As far as the lady I spoke to knew, there is none, it seems that the surgery is relying on the area being ?out of sight.? I disagree anyone walking past will be able to see a row of unsecured pushchairs. Pushchairs cost as I am sure you know an enormous amount of money. We live close by and two of my neighbours have had pushchairs stolen from outside their own front doors in the last six months, and we had a child?s scooter taken ourselves. It was suggested also that I buy a bicycle style lock for our chair, but I can?t see what I would secure it to.

While I can see the need for some sort solution to the congestion in the waiting room, as a result of parents and children who are patients at XXX Surgery using pushchairs, I don?t feel that just telling people their only option is to leave their pushchairs outside, in an unsecured area, and carry in their child or children and changing bags, handbags and who knows even their shopping, is acceptable. In fact I think it?s discriminatory. I have spoken to several mothers today who are patients at XXX, as are their children, and they all agree, and have said they will be putting forward their comments also.

I look forward to your reply and hope that XXX can be a bit more creative in finding a solution that doesn?t leave patients feeling unwelcome.

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SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:03

It wasn't you who said it though CremeEggs.

It was another posters.

choceyes · 10/04/2012 12:03

My GP is 5 min walk from the house, so only one nappy is needed in case of a poo accident.

Cremeeggsandkitkatsoldiers · 10/04/2012 12:04

"I find it amusing that people are focussing on whether people have one or two bags, and whether they have a babygro on them or not, as opposed to"

Sardine, it is only in response to people on here worrying about getting change bags plus hand bags plus baby up to waiting rooms. They don't have to, it's one worry about the ban they can cross off their list, which is good.

halcyondays · 10/04/2012 12:04

What chaperone nurse?

ClaireAll · 10/04/2012 12:04

I would expect a modicum of common sense. If you are taking a D&V baby out, obviously you are going to carry the gear you need for that occasion.

If you are going to the doctor for yourself, you aren't going to expect your baby to suddenly void from every orifice, are you?

Turniphead1 · 10/04/2012 12:05

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Cremeeggsandkitkatsoldiers · 10/04/2012 12:05

I know S but I agree with t'other poster

Turniphead1 · 10/04/2012 12:07

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vezzie · 10/04/2012 12:07

This really annoys me. This is the case at my surgery and I went in for an appointment for myself with my 10 month old in my arms (and my nearly 3 year old on foot, but she was fine and tends to be good in places like that). The dr was really off with me about what to do with the 10 month old while I lay on the table so she could look at my hips. I was all apologetic and trying to make suggestions like the good girl I sometimes revert to being under pressure. Only got around to being properly pissed off later. dd2 crawled all about the floor in god knows what germs because I wasn't allowed to go and get the pushchair and there was nothing else to be done.

Why can't the surgery be reasonable and put up signs like "If you can fold up your pushchair or leave it outside, please do"? I mean if I had walked all the way there with just dd1 I would have had her pushchair but I wouldn't have had to bring it in, and I would have understood the sign to mean me. Wouldn't cases like that be enough?

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:08

My babies shat regularly and often exploded it up their clothes.

No way would I go out anywhere with a young baby and only one nappy/no changes of clothes.

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:09

Chaperone nurse?

We see the nurse for smears. No chaperone.

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:10

I was told by the surgery I was not allowed to put the baby on the floor while I had a smear, even if I put in on a blanket or something.

brdgrl · 10/04/2012 12:10

so you see, claire, there are exceptions.

  • sick babies
  • lone parents, or those who are 'lone for the day'
  • parents with multiples or more than one child
  • parents with mobility issues
  • parents who are themselves ill (and hence visiting a doctor)
  • parents who do not drive That's a start. In fact, there are so many "exceptions", that they start to look like more than just exceptions...
halcyondays · 10/04/2012 12:10

Actually yes, even if going to the doctor for myself I did expect my baby to suddenly void from every orifice, particularly dd2. It wasn't unusual for them to do explosive poos where they really did need a change of clothing, and they were both boaky, but dd2 was particularly bad and she would often be completely soaking with it and need a change.

McHappyPants2012 · 10/04/2012 12:10

it would be sod law that when i didn't pack spare clothes and xtra nappies it the days when the DC needed changing.

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:11

Turniphead she would have been easier able to carry all the stuff and the baby, rather than having to hold the babe in arms and also carry all the stuff.

Not the end of the world, no. But make it twins, or a young toddler as well, and you're getting into things being quite tricky indeed.

Cremeeggsandkitkatsoldiers · 10/04/2012 12:11

you can have one if you ask for one with any invasive proceedure like that, if you asked for one to be there at your smear there would be one (well might be difficult if you didn't ask at time of booking, but something would be done). I've been a chaperone even when female nurses or docs were doing the proceedure.

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:12

halcyondays Quite.

ClaireAll · 10/04/2012 12:12

The GP isn't going to want to examine a sick baby in a buggy though? They have to be in your arms, surely?

halcyondays · 10/04/2012 12:13

I can't say I felt a need to have a chaperone,I didn't need to ask a member of staff to take up their time holding my baby because I was able to wheel my baby in in her pram. No issues, job done.

Cremeeggsandkitkatsoldiers · 10/04/2012 12:13

and if my baby was that miserable and sick I'ld be cuddling him anyway?

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:13

If I asked for a chaperone for my smear I imagine they would say no, I doubt there's be anyone spare.

If I then revealed that I wanted the chaperone I had demanded not to act as a chaperone but in order to hold my baby, I think someone would be having serious words with me.

SardineQueen · 10/04/2012 12:15

My babies weren't sick they just shat a lot and often it was explosive.

I understand this is quite usual for babies, TBH.

Cremeeggsandkitkatsoldiers · 10/04/2012 12:15

they cannot say no, they have to find someone even if it's an agency HCA

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