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to wonder what happened to 'proper' mealtimes?

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undercoverPrincess · 29/03/2012 10:47

Just lately all the kids parties we go to seem to involve serving food (mostly sandwich type buffets but at one McDonalds) at times that are between mealtimes (between 2 and 3pm)?

I just don't get this, I try really hard to get into a good routine and give my children a good attitude regarding what they eat / snack on and when and I don't like them being re-fed between meals?

One party started at 12.30 so I didn't know what to do, I have DD a snack before but the food came out at 2 so the kids that hadn't had lunch like my DD were probably starving. Then come teatime she didn't want her proper dinner.

We have been invited to another party like this next month and I'm sorely tempted to refuse the invite but will feel bad as I know my DD will want to go :(

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LeQueen · 29/03/2012 13:16

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tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:17

Surely you don't need a watch anymore

People this anal can tell the time by the sun

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tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:20

And we don't do frivolity here y'know

tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:22

......or fun, or parties, or cake, or friends, or wine.

But we are slim.

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tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:24

And only if the fun and frivolity is on the approved list

Jins · 29/03/2012 13:25

They need a watch in case it's cloudy. You need a backup system or two

tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:27

You should just KNOW what time it is

LadyBeagleEyes · 29/03/2012 13:28

Poor OP.
Do you think we've scared her off?

GinSlinger · 29/03/2012 13:28

Is it too late for lunch? Quick someone tell me.
And how do you all manage to stay so slim? Is it your diet?

tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:30

I think so?!

Or maybe it's approved snack time?
It's my snack time, I'm eating a choc brownie Grin

imnotmymum · 29/03/2012 13:31

Sorry Gin got to wait until 5pm now you cannot "re-feed"

Jins · 29/03/2012 13:31

You're fine for lunch GinSlinger. Nice timing actually because you could get an afternoon tea in before your evening meal(s)

I manage to stay slim through my inconsistent approach and lack of rigidity in my routine but I don't know about anyone else

CurrySpice · 29/03/2012 13:32

I've just finished lunch. But I also had a hot cross bun at 11. Was that lunch? Or was my lunch lunch?

I need to see the rules!!

helpyourself · 29/03/2012 13:33

Are you French OP?

Jins · 29/03/2012 13:34

I put the rules upthread for discussion

breakfast any time between 8 and 11
lunch any time between 11 and 4
'afternoon tea' somewhere between 4 and 6 if required
evening meal between 6 and 9 unless eating out when it may stretch to 10

Your hot cross bun may have been breakfast, second breakfast or elevenses which I have omitted

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crunchbag · 29/03/2012 13:36

Kids parties and wasting food go together, that's why you buy cheap stuff :o

hot cross bun at 11 is brunch :)

What about chocolate at 2.30?

CurrySpice · 29/03/2012 13:36

I'm counting it as my lunch starter then. With a big gap to the main course and the icecream on the way home from the school run as dessert

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 29/03/2012 13:37

, this thread has livened up my lunchtime. , it is still allowed to be lunchtime isn't it? Grin

I actually lol'd at KateMiddletons 'thinking sobering thoughts', genius.

tantrumsandballoons · 29/03/2012 13:37

I had lunch at 11am
I am hungry
Do I have to wait until 5pm??

Never going to happen!

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BlackAffronted · 29/03/2012 13:39

This thread is so mean, though I am sniggering quite loudly Blush

crunchbag · 29/03/2012 13:40

make that 1:30, I am an hour out

Jins, do you have hairy feet?

OP, my dd had her bowling party last Saturday 3-5pm, food was served at 4.15, kids were asking for it at 3 :o