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to be just a little bit tempted?

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WetTheMogwai · 04/03/2012 21:15

Ive just been offered the chance to star in 3 porn films and be payed £15k per film for the privilage!

Now porn has never even crossed my mind and I cant imagine anyone would want to watch me and the thought of someone I know stumbling across it is just too embarrasing so Id never consider it BUT things are more than a bit tight atm and thats A LOT of money..

Just have to wait for the lottery win i guess!

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starwisher · 04/03/2012 23:02

So how does he have £45k just lying around?

Come on op your desperation is blinding you

DON'T DO IT

SparkySparrow · 04/03/2012 23:02

In my defence I did say go for it before there were any details.
This is so obviously a scam! Not a good idea, just tell him to fuck off!

SarahStratton · 04/03/2012 23:04

I don't think it could be described as an easy way, by any stretch of the imagination.

Please, please, please forward these messages to the dating site. As with my Nigerian lurve scammer not every woman has the benefit of The Hive.

MissVerinder · 04/03/2012 23:04

No. Way.

This is a big scam and if you're not careful you'll end up being extorted and someone's glorified wank sock.

No, no, no, no, no, no.

Cherriesarelovely · 04/03/2012 23:05

Oh dear, this sounds like an absolute nightmare. Seriously OP this couldn't sound more dodgy. Do not touch it with a barge pole.

desperatenotstupid · 04/03/2012 23:06

Boiler repair man??? i've just sprayed my wine!! Who reffers to themself as a boiler repair man? not the plumbers and gas fitters than i know thats for sure.

Are you not very old? Seriously, this person sounds like a fantasist and at best he is having one off the wrist while talking to you about this, at or at worst, well, im genuinely worried for you.

Starting to hope this thread is a windup

cuddlymanatee · 04/03/2012 23:07

I know someone who did BDSM porn (no actual sex), 10+ years ago to put her DS through private school.

Now, of course, one of his schoolfriends found one of her vids and it's all over fb and youtube and her poor son is determined to drop out of 6th form because he can't take the shame...

It's clearly a scam in your case, but if you are desperate I'd rather do a marriage of convenience or be a surrogate or... well, almost anything, than be ON FILM FOREVER.

I'd rather be bankrupt than be on film, searchable forever...

LeBOF · 04/03/2012 23:08

It sounds like a big ol' scam to me. What a repulsive thing for somebody to ask of you- you need a much better calibre of dating site.

SparkySparrow · 04/03/2012 23:09

What dating site is it?
Is it a 'find sex in your area site' or a 'matchmaking' site?

LadyBeagleEyes · 04/03/2012 23:09

Grin at boiler repair man on a dating site offering you £45k to make porn films.
Wind up.

NonnoMum · 04/03/2012 23:11

Run for the hills.

Stranger sees you single on the internet and tries to exploit you.

You will NOT make 45k out of this. Never ever ever.

Call the police. You are smart enough to get out of this. Think about how many 15 year olds (pretending to be 18 to get on the dating websites) have been abused by this man. Think about how many desperate homeless women he has approached. Think about how many desperate drug addicts he has approach.

Get out NOW.

MyLittleMiracle · 04/03/2012 23:30

I was one of those desperate homeless women a less than two weeks ago, and okay i went to gumtree and the council etc, but i havent done anything that my son would be ashamed of! I have found thanks to a wonderful couple who are moving in together, a nice home for him and me. I was desperate, and in desperate circumstances, things become more tempting. Maybe if it was leonardo dicaprio, but then again it would be ME paying HIM 45k!

STAY AWAY FROM THIS INDUSRTY. I can understand those who really are desperate.

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WetTheMogwai · 04/03/2012 23:34

desperate if that made you spray your wine wait tilyou read this!

I actualy laughed out loud at either how stupid he is or how stupid he thinks i am! i questioned him on the whole profit thing what was brought up on here eg if im paid 10k and they only make 2 copies then surely thats not profitable etc etc so how does it work? and he came back with this corker....

The less they make te more they worth if you get me it's like rare cars are worth so much coz there are only 50 of them in world that's like your DVD there are 10 they could sell for 5- 10 thousand a piece xx

consider yourself reported my friend....no date for my boiler repair man any time soon :p

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desperatenotstupid · 04/03/2012 23:36

what website is this?

starwisher · 04/03/2012 23:37

Good for you wet!

It's lucky you posted this I think you saved yourself from whatever grim fate awaited

NonnoMum · 04/03/2012 23:42

Wet you are one classy Lay-dee.

Can you post his photo so we know who to avoid???

fortyplus · 04/03/2012 23:44

OMG - 'tell me out of these what you would do,' how fucking gullible are you?! He's wanking over your messages!

swooosh · 04/03/2012 23:52

What an absolute scam!!

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WetTheMogwai · 04/03/2012 23:53

lol forty i didnt tell him and i kinda assume that half the guy on these things wank over your pics anyway, half the fun is sieving out the wierdos and laughing at the freaks (flashback of the man with a foot fettish who wanted to be my foot slave). imagine the fun we'd miss out on if we didnt have them to talk about on here!

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TotemPole · 04/03/2012 23:57

Why didn't you go for the foot fettish bloke?

You could get him to do your housework wearing nothing but a smile, and his reward is he gets to lick your feet.

diotima · 05/03/2012 00:03

I can't believe you lot! It seems to be something like this: -

a) 45k is a lot of money so, God, it's perfectly moral to do it!
b) I'm not after the money for myself. It's for my kid(s). I'm certain that's what they'd want me to do for them. They wouldn't mind that I'm making myself into a prostitute - it shows how much I love them. However, I'm not going to risk asking them if that's want me to do for their sakes because I love them so much that what they'd want for me doesn't matter. I don't want my kids to know that because of them I need to prostitute myself. If, however, they ever found out, they would know that this is what they made their mother into because she had children. After all, if it wasn't for them, she wouldn't have done it. That's going to make them feel great about themselves!
c) Having decided to sell myself, if the person doesn't give me the full amount I'm going to call the police. I'm being exploited and that's not very moral! How could they do that to a moral person like me? How do you know I'm moral? Because 45K is a lot of money! Everyone knows that!

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WetTheMogwai · 05/03/2012 00:10

haha totem because just you mentioning foot licking is making my toes curl! i cant even touch my own feet never mind let someone else touch then!

diotima fair point but money and desperation makes people do daft things

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diotima · 05/03/2012 00:18

WetTheMogwai - I know money and desperation makes people do daft things, but few children starve in this country. Most children love their mother so much they would rather starve than make her into a prostitute by virtue of being in this world. Children mostly want to love and be loved. They don't want this to be turned into some horrible indignity for their mum in their names.

AnyFucker · 05/03/2012 00:24

it's great that you are not really so fucking stupid, OP

alessthandomesticgoddess · 05/03/2012 00:25

Honestly, if I had no DP and was a lone parent, I'd do it. I live on £100 a week, £45,000 for sex which would equate to a better future for my DC's? A no brainer.

I say this as someone with self respect and dignity (or so I believe). There is a lot I wouldn't do for money but also a lot I would.

OP, think about it, of course but if the money and stability is worth it and you're comfortable go for it!

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