to want the same haircut as my dd?

[ThatllDoPig]

She's 12. I'm 38. Its shoulder length, layered, shaped, it looks amazing. We have similar colour and thickness of hair.
She doesn't mind, but would it be a bit weird to have 'matching' hair dos?

I wouldn't have the same do as your daughter, as that would be just weird!lol

Maybe wait until hers grows a bit, and then get it done?

I wouldn't either. Can you go for a longer or shorter version of it so it's not sop obviously the same?

No totally not nice to have a living model My DD got her hair done and looked great I got mine done no big deal I am sure mmmiiillliiiooonnnsss of people have same hair unless she had a mohican shoulder length hair not too radical . Me and my 13 year share tops and shoes [She size 8 bum though so either fatten her up to a 12 or I diet ...] YANBU