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After giving birth I went home, didn't you?

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HansieMom · 26/02/2012 23:23

The thread about this was just deleted and I had not read it all, it was around 307 posts. It was about a woman 35 weeks pregnant whose DH was insisting she go to MIL house and stay after giving birth. SIL and MIL were ordering this done. I wonder if this is the SIL who told the writer that she would NOT be writing about SIL/DH family online again?

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EauDeLaPoisson · 26/02/2012 23:25

I think the OP of that thread requested it be deleted

LilacWaltz · 26/02/2012 23:25

Didn't see it! Why was it deleted?

BlueFergie · 26/02/2012 23:28

Was just looking for that thread. What happened?

stressheaderic · 26/02/2012 23:30

I ploughed through several pages of that too. Without the denouement, that's 1/2 hour of my life I'll never get back...

TulipsFromHamsterJam · 26/02/2012 23:31

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Portofino · 26/02/2012 23:32

Eh?

Tiddlyompompom · 26/02/2012 23:32

The OP updated before she requested the deletion, and has decided she will def not be going to the MILs after the birth. She said she's ok, and thanked everyone for their concern.
I think all is going to be well, she sounds much more confident.
HTH.

TulipsFromHamsterJam · 26/02/2012 23:32

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HansieMom · 26/02/2012 23:34

Thank you Tiddly for the update. I feel much better now!

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HansieMom · 26/02/2012 23:41

Thank you, Tulips. I did not think we were supposed to write about a thread but I had read 250 plus posts and I was so involved in the saga and then I see a message saying the thread had been removed. I will endeavor to follow the rules now. Cheers!

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M0naLisa · 26/02/2012 23:43

I wondered where this thread had gone!! i do hope she puts her foot down and tells her DH, SIL and MIL to do one!

BlueFergie · 27/02/2012 00:07

Thanks diddly. Hope you are right. Pity she didn't stay with the thread. I get the feeling she will need support.

inatrance · 27/02/2012 00:11

I'm glad you asked, and that the OP updated, I didn't get to the end of it either so didn't know what had happened.

Honeydragon · 27/02/2012 00:20

Oh glad it was for hopefully a positive reason, I was a bit ....uh oh, too.

CremeEggThief · 27/02/2012 09:27

Thanks for the update, Tiddly. I really hope the OP will be ok and her mum comes to support her.

SwimmingThroughSickLullabies · 27/02/2012 10:05

I was also wondering where it had gone. Her thread made me have that awful feeling in the pit of my stomach. I hope she comes back after the birth and tells us all how she got on. Xx

iscream · 27/02/2012 10:26

I was just looking for it as well. OP, stay strong, your in-laws and dh were VVVVVVVU.

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