Sudden influx of same. This is not just Hubby-uses-MY-toothbrush-for-self-pleasure or sad and convincing DV threads,but there seem to be quite a few threads about wanking men and the evil thereof which seem to derail very fast into superstitious anti-wanking as opposed to addressing domestic violence. Sure, some men who wank themselves flat are horrible, but some abusive men don't wank or indeed may appear to forget they have willies.