To expect not to be attacked on mumsnet?

[prizeelliott]

They were nasty over there..... As if you can't discuss more babies if you already have had some. Nasty nasty

Well yanbu obviously. Oh glee off to read horrid thread .

Op can't get it right can she!!

Slated over in conception for starting THAT thread, now told here she shouldn't be starting THIS thread

Where should she post then posting police?

which thread is this based on?

Well, on the thread in question, you had as many people supporting you as you did criticising you.

And it's a bit silly, isn't it, to start a 'poor old me' thread like this, just because some people took offence?

Perhaps you should have thought a bit more about other people and the situation that they are in before you posted in Conception?

Are you some sort of masochist, OP?

Lots of people will agree with you, lots won't.

If it is a personal attack, MNHQ usually pulls the thread, or deletes the offending posts.

Has this happened?

YANBU OP. I don't expect to be attacked either. But every day, here they all be - posting veiled digs at me. Dressing it up as discussion about food, or TOWIE or Pip Schofield's knob. I know it's them Being Mean.
Fuckers. Let's flounce to Bounty.

you don't need the posting police to tell you that posting an attention seeking yiz are all bitches thread in AIBU cos you didn't like the answers on another thread is a Bad Idea. And terrible netiquette too.

Link please?! If if is like biwi said it does seem you were insensitive. And then to write a post like this is so overindulgent! 'tis the nature of these kind of boards to get attacked so get over yourself - you are being treated no different to anyone else

Feel a bit sorry for the OP.

If she'd have posted "AIBU to want to know if you can select a gender" in AIBU she would have been told to post in the right topic.

She posted in the right topic, not realising that the right topic was a hotbed or raw emotion.

Hey ho! Another strange day in MN land

Waw what lovely people

OP posted another thread under a similar title, and got only support, so why do another one???

Ok OP I got the gist of it over there. Well yanbu to ask as I've seen this very topic discussed and no-one fell out over it. Posting on that board about your bountiful fertility was your undoing I'm afraid.

People are very sensitive on here these days I find and quick to get awful cross. Don't worry op. Is just folks and their funny ways.

It's a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Why are you getting so upset?

there were 33 posts on that thread when I looked - hardly flooded with "attacks".

I think you may find MN a bit too robust for you.

I'm honestly not sure what you are hoping to achieve, OP. And I'm not being nasty or attacking you by asking the question. Clearly you've had a difficult experience elsewhere but I can't imagine why you chose AIBU (of all places) to post a thread about a thread. Especially since you are now getting silly on this one.

I notice you're new to MN.

Netmums -->

Ta ra hun xx

Mwah Mwah

Twinkly sparkly kisses to you

She posted about conception in the conception topic, now insensitivity would have been posting it in the 'infertility' topic!

It's a conception thread! In the right place

Hold on - is this the thread in Conception where you ask about choosing the sex of your baby? And you get a few polite responses, say 'thank goodness, I have seen people flamed on MN for breathing' and then get a few more polite responses? And that's it?

What exactly are you complaining about? Is there another thread?

Oh, have nice mellow shag before ovulation and leave be a day or so, gets a gril.

Fuck like demons as the egg is oozing down actual tubes, gets a fella. hth.

[Holby trained]

Biwi what's that supposed to mean? Why does it matter?

OP isn't new, has been around since 09.

Ah, ignore me. The OP started two threads in Conception on the same topic this week. The second didn't go as well as the first.
Hardy a flame-grilling though.