Hello there OP
First of all, I am very jealous of your MN name as it's my DS name!
Secondly, please be assured that any personal attacks are taken very seriously. Do report any that you see and we will take a look and delete accordingly.
We hope that you will stick with us, as there is plenty of great advice and support all over Mumsnet (as well as lots of silliness and snort your beverage out of your nose wit too).
Thanks MN Towers