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To think that if you have servants you aren't middle class?

121 replies

uruculager · 10/02/2012 12:01

"Tax breaks for hiring a cleaner could save middle class thousands"

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/politics/9073334/Tax-breaks-for-hiring-a-cleaner-could-save-middle-class-thousands.html

Is "middle class" now totally meaningless?

OP posts:
WorraLiberty · 10/02/2012 12:03

I don't recognise class so can't answer your question.

However, since when has a cleaner been a 'servant'?

If that's the case then even people on benefits have servants.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 10/02/2012 12:04

YABU... Hiring a cleaner or a gardener is not the same as having Downton Abbey-style 'staff'.

cheesesarnie · 10/02/2012 12:05

servant?
what's your views on nannys/au pairs/childminders etc then?or sending ironing out?

Whatmeworry · 10/02/2012 12:07

We do not have servants - we outsource some of the non core operational functions :o

OTheHugeManatee · 10/02/2012 12:07

YABU for thinking that paying someone to spend a couple of hours cleaning your house every week is the same as 'having servants'. 'Having servants' is more like having a PA, permanent house management staff, gardener, chauffeur and nanny or nannies. That might reasonably be considered upper class.

But a cleaner? Loads of not particularly well-off people in the UK pay for a few hours' cleaning a week. Are you seriously suggesting they're all upper class? Confused

AMumInScotland · 10/02/2012 12:09

Having a cleaner come for a few hours a week is a long way from "having servants" - I'd only count fulltime staff as "servants" in that sense. Huge numbers of middle-class families have a cleaner, or a gardener, or someone to do the ironing.

TopazMortmain · 10/02/2012 12:09

No words

WilsonFrickett · 10/02/2012 12:10

but I'm working class! And I used to have a cleaner! I don't fit into the Daily Mail's slightly deranged world view! Head explodes!!

You know what's meaningless in your OP? Your use of the word 'servants'...

SarahStratton · 10/02/2012 12:13

And 'middle-class'. Which covers pretty much everyone, apart from the landed aristocracy and those who consider themselves working class.

It's just a ridiculous view. And it's about time we stopped banging on about class, which is an equally ridiculous view.

SarahStratton · 10/02/2012 12:15

'Pretty much everyone' is there to encompass the likes of my XMIL. Who considers herself Upper Class, but actually doesn't make the Upper Middle grade (if you absolutely had to grade her).

She is Hyacinth Bucket, come to life.

TheCatInTheHairnet · 10/02/2012 12:15

Nobody has servants anymore. Not even the posh folk

uruculager · 10/02/2012 12:19

I recall reading in the Guardian that 10% of households employ "domestic staff" (does it worry you to think you have servants?) but all I could find by googling was this statistic that indicated 8% of households employed cleaners:

www.prnewswire.co.uk/cgi/news/release?id=102791

Obviously that 8% is well represented here.

OP posts:
Devora · 10/02/2012 12:21

Yup, the middle classes have cleaners.

The upper classes have servants (oh yes they do, CatinHairnet!).

That's in this country. It varies elsewhere. My dp, for example, is Caribbean (dad was a doctor) and raised with housekeeper, cook, nanny...

catgirl1976 · 10/02/2012 12:22

Having a cleaner is not the same as having servants so YABU.

aLOSr, although the majority of people who have servants may well be upper class, having servants does not make you upper class.

If I went out tomorrow hired a nanny, a butler, a housekeeper, a ladies maid and a valet I would not become uppper class. (I would become skint, over crowded and possibly divorced)

You cannot become upper class - you are born into it or you are not.

RealLifeIsForWimps · 10/02/2012 12:26

Well theoretically, you have to be aristocracy to be upper class so YABU.

Also remember that class and wealth have nothing to do with one another

Wayne Rooney and Jordan have many staff. Neither will ever be upper class.

sue52 · 10/02/2012 12:29

I have a cleaner and a gardener. I am on first name terms with both and have never thought of them as servants. My mum reckons I became middle class the moment I bought an Aga.

RealLifeIsForWimps · 10/02/2012 12:29

I think it's a good idea btw. It puts individuals who create employment on the same footing as companies (i.e. salaries of people you employ are tax deductible). We cant keep just relying on enormous multinationals to employ everyone.

LunaticFringe · 10/02/2012 12:31

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Shanghaidiva · 10/02/2012 12:31

YABU - servant is a pejorative term. Having full time domestic staff is not the same as having a cleaner.
I have a cleaner and a driver - they are not servants.

RealLifeIsForWimps · 10/02/2012 12:33

Also, In MN land why is a full time cleaner/housekeeper "a servant" but a full time nanny not?

CogitoErgoSometimes · 10/02/2012 12:34

They have this kind of scheme in Belgium. A colleague was telling me how he's employed a cleaner and a gardener. If it creates jobs, why not?

RealLifeIsForWimps · 10/02/2012 12:38

The only issue I can see comes when a nanny is tax deductible (because you directly employ them) but nursery fees/childminders aren't because there you're buying a share in an existing service.

ps I bet my left butt cheek that Ed Miliband has a cleaner.

TheParanoidAndroid · 10/02/2012 12:41

None of them are "servants". Hmm

Portofino · 10/02/2012 12:43

Agree with Cogito - yes in Belgium they have the Titres Services cheques. Which cost 7.50 euro and = one hour of domestic help ie cleaning, shopping, ironing. The cost of these is tax deductible - so in effect you pay 5.25 euros.

The Govt actually pays to the agencies 21.40 euros. For the employees, it makes sure they are insured, have their NI paid and tax paid. It is a really good idea - and meant to help working families. It also discourages you from employing people illegally. You can't use them for child care.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 10/02/2012 12:45