bumbleymummy Mon 06-Feb-12 21:47:07
"Eh? Where have I said that? I was simply saying that I don't see too many people frothing about disability benefits on MN- most of the frothing seems to be over people complaining about the benefits cap while still managing to buy cigarettes/alcohol/sky tv/mobiles etc"
Are we reading the same MN, bumbley? I have seen plenty of posts in the last few months along the lines of "I know someone who claims DLA, but they are clearly a fraud as they don't look at all disabled/are able to work/walked from the car the other day/can go swimming."
These posts make me deeply uneasy, as I have a dd whose disability is both invisible and intermittent: she has good days, or good half hours, but not enough to be able to attend school on a regular basis, let alone to hold down a fulltime job if she were old enough to do so.
We do not claim any benefits and have not applied for a blue badge, as dd also suffers from depression and we reckon a few choice comments from curtain twitching neighbours might just be enough to tip her over the edge; it's not a risk we can afford to take
. But it comes very expensive: everything is more expensive when you have a disabled member of the family.