To think DP should have shown some common sense

[Corpse]

It snowed overnight here and I was at work early so went to the car at 6am and turned the heating on and everything with the idea that it would take 15 mins or so for the windows to clear. Anyway I was sat there and realised I had left a load of records in the house. I text DP (who I knew was up) and asked him to bring them to me (he often does this to me) and so he opened the bedroom window and just THREW the folders from the first floor window. They were not secure and so hundreds of important files and records just flew EVERYWHERE. I mean, in next doors garden, stuck in the tree, onto the road, they just went literally everywhere. I could only gather around 80% of them and am now in some serious shit at work. DP is refusing the accept that he should have any blame in it whatsoever. I'm so angry at him, if I'd have done that to his files he would go fucking mental.

AIBU to think he should acknowledge that he was being a twat at the very least?

I do not think this is real. It is too stupid an action for someone to throw serious legal documents out a window.

I often have legal papers with me, do I ask DH to be involved with them -
no

This DH has been out of order - obviously.

Well just to be a bit contoversial : is there anything wrong with being self-sufficient?

What an arse!

Id tell your boss the truth though.

Your DH was beyond twatish. what on earth was he thinking? I think you need to tell your manager the truth. The chances of the snow/rain damaged papers ending up in the wrong hands are minute. Really, really small. Most people would just ignore or bin. Your manager will know this. Tell the truth, grovel, it will be ok.

This is such thoughtless immature behaviour from your DH, and his reaction afterwards is dreadful. Would you trust this man with looking after a baby?

Hi Corpse how did you get on today at work?

if he could't be bothered he could of just texted back no - what a fucking idiot!

Or if he was in the bathroom he could have just ignored you. His reaction is just so .

I hope work went ok today despite everything.

Oh my god.. this is outrageous! God you poor woman.. I hope it works out.

Any update op?

I keep thinking about this thread and what happened next so if you could post an update OP I'd be really interested! Hope all went ok at work.